@andreaabbott1 ...I can fully sympathise with all that you say...my partner has this afternoon effectively just discharged himself from the pain management clinic and also from the orthopaedics for problems with his knee.....tomorrow he is seeing the GP about pain in his hip and his shoulder and will expect him to do something about it...is totally and utterly crazy but nothing I can do about it....he never listens to what I say or to any GP or consultant and never remembers what they say...hubby lied about the weight loss, typical, anyway GP has doubled up the pain killer patched and the amertriphilan spelt that wrong
hubby has no reflex at all in his right leg so sending him for an MRI.
hubby dont listen either because GP said if this is caused by the high sugars then it wont get better but hubby is convinced his nerves will regrow.
I wanted to walk out of the consultant room, I actually sat there quiet and thought what is the point of me trying to help him when he lies so much
I am sorry this is going to be along post, I am just begging please for some response or advice on where to go what to ask for.
My husband has been type 2 for 15 years, totally out of control
he is never under 10.6 and the last blood test his HBC was 120
now he hasnt heeded the warning signs at all he hasnt been able to get an erection for over 8 years, even with viagra.
he has also had something wrong with his eyes related to high blood sugar
the passed 4 years he has complained of calf pain when walking
last year he developed a pain near his shoulder blade he was convinced he had been stung, which he hadnt but the sensation spread round to his chest and he was put on amitriptyline.
This March for no reason he developed a pain in his leg muscle at the top he said it felt like a strain he had done nothing to course this
but the pain spread into his back and down his leg and he convinced himself he had sciatica
BUT and heres the but since March and even being on tramadol the pain is worse its in his groin and all the way down the front of his legs to the point he cant bear anyone to even touch his legs
he also falls because his leg gives way in April he could go up stairs with ease now he cant climb the stairs, the pain wakes him at night and he spends most of the day laying around in pain.
he is on morphine patches
no one seems to be listening to me he hasnt been referred anywhere and even a walk around the supermarket is getting to much for him
also in 2 months he has lost over 3 stone in weight while you may say thats great it isnt when you are eating packs of doughnuts and belgian buns and consuming 4 cans of fizzy drinks aday
he is not eating normal food stuff as he says he has gone off food
so from March my husband has gone from a relatively fit 67 year old to being less mobile than my 87 year old uncle
I need answers, I need to know if this is just going to continue to get worse to the point he wont be able to walk or will it get better
who do i ask my GP to refer him to as my GP just says oh its muscles pain
Andrea
@andreaabbott1 ....hope the MRI brings some answers and that you get some definite diagnosis as to what is causing the problem....will you get the results on Monday or do you have to wait for them...Just an Update Hubbies MRI is this monday 3rd August phew, as he has been now falling over frequently 3 or 4 times a day,
he can only walk a small way the leg stays straight, and he is really slow, slower than my daughter with Downs syndrome and trust me she is slow
he cant bath or shower because he cant get upstairs
I dont think it sciatica, although hubby has convinced himself thats what it is
reason is he can sit at his computer for hours and hours, yet cant walk, and is in chronic pain at night with his leg
I will keep you updated, but yes he is still on cakes and biscuits
Just an Update Hubbies MRI is this monday 3rd August phew, as he has been now falling over frequently 3 or 4 times a day,
he can only walk a small way the leg stays straight, and he is really slow, slower than my daughter with Downs syndrome and trust me she is slow
he cant bath or shower because he cant get upstairs
I dont think it sciatica, although hubby has convinced himself thats what it is
reason is he can sit at his computer for hours and hours, yet cant walk, and is in chronic pain at night with his leg
I will keep you updated, but yes he is still on cakes and biscuits
Wow, that is extreme... it just goes to show how much diabetes can affect the brain sometimes. He had distorted perceptions... he was delusional, to think that your actions that day were anything other than rescue, that any of us would have done.FOR ANDREAABBOT 1 im sorry for your situation i went through the same myself my husband just gave up he was diagnosed T1 when he was 72 i had been on at him for ages as i was already T2 on insulin i knew something was badly wrong one day he had a hyper and i got dr fast and the next thing he was in hospital he was a very gentle man but the hyper turned him into this mad man he had been getting worse for weeks he was then diagnosed T1 and went straight onto insulin he hated hospital and when he came home he hardly spoke again he said i had let him down letting them take him to hospital . i spent the next three years to be honest yelling i know no good comes of that but i could not get through to him i was so upset then this kind gentle man told me he hated me for what i had done to him the next day he had a massive stroke and i had to let him go please show this to your husband if you think it might help you have so much to put up with i wish there was more help i could give you
If he would rather wait to see the GP then the pain can't be too bad. If it was really bad, he would ask you to take him to A&E. One option would be to chase up the MRI results by phone.Its been over 10 days and NO MRI results back.
hubby is falling over more and more and since posting he has lost another stone in weight
it is dropping off him
the skin on his leg is all baggy and the leg is cold to touch
he may as well be superglued to the sofa as he spends more time than the cat asleep on it.
he has stupidly run out of tramadol so he has no pain killers, not that they were doing anything other than making him sleep they were not reliving the pain at all
He is saying the pain is worse, I have said I will take him to A&E then perhaps he can be given a steroid injection or at least referred, to the right place quicker than the GP will do, but all though he is getting worse he keeps saying he will wait for the MRI results as the GP maybe able to give him something for the pain.
personally I am at a lose as to what the GP can do
I dont know his Bloods as he hasnt taken them
Its been over 10 days and NO MRI results back.
hubby is falling over more and more and since posting he has lost another stone in weight
it is dropping off him
the skin on his leg is all baggy and the leg is cold to touch
he may as well be superglued to the sofa as he spends more time than the cat asleep on it.
he has stupidly run out of tramadol so he has no pain killers, not that they were doing anything other than making him sleep they were not reliving the pain at all
He is saying the pain is worse, I have said I will take him to A&E then perhaps he can be given a steroid injection or at least referred, to the right place quicker than the GP will do, but all though he is getting worse he keeps saying he will wait for the MRI results as the GP maybe able to give him something for the pain.
personally I am at a lose as to what the GP can do
I dont know his Bloods as he hasnt taken them
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