Hi All, I am writing this as I don"t know where to turn and is abit long winded so I apologise.
My mum has recently had 2 mini strokes, high blood pressure (which does seem to be now under control and has gone down) and diabetes (managed with metformin tablets)
We live in a set of flats so we have a downstais neighbour. My mum the past few months believes that she can hear neighbours talking which she has never complained about before.
She believes the flat below is messing with her head and even last night turned around and said she got woken up in the early hours by then saying "lets mess with her head". She believes our flat is 'noisy' and louder than normal when its the same as it has been the last 13 years there's no difference in noise levels. This wasn't mentioned for a while but has started up again recently.
She is going out all the time when I am in work as she says she doesn"t hear anything but as soon as she comes in get the same coversation again as has been going on for months that they are all talking about her. At several points over the past few weeks she has even thought they have hacked her phone to read her text messages.
The flat below us has always been noisy with slamming windows and doors which I hear also. She also thinks they are recording us to try get us evicted (bear in my mind my neighbour below still bangs along walls and thuds so I dont think she is recording as that is all it will pick up herself. If was going to record a neighbour she would have to be quiet herself, which she isnt). The slamming and banging from below has been an issue since lockdown in 2020 but the voices has only been within past few months.
Also a few months ago she believes next door was following her when she went out and getting other people to follow her like when she went shopping or hospital or doctors appointments. This she hasn"t mentioned again in a while now.
When I mentioned other people have experienced the same online she basically said "if you don"t believe me, I dont want to hear it" and to "not go there". I just dont know if its more serious than just from the health issues and once it is all under control she will be fine or if its something else. I just dont know what to do and cant say anything or she flips if its not what she wants to hear.
All this eased up for abit and then recently she has gone back to a few months ago on her thoughts. It might not be diabetic related but the symptoms of parabois only came around after the stroke/diabetes. She seems to have an obsession that all the neighbour has to do is talk about her and to make threats and have a go at her, when really why would she even care about her.
My mum has recently had 2 mini strokes, high blood pressure (which does seem to be now under control and has gone down) and diabetes (managed with metformin tablets)
We live in a set of flats so we have a downstais neighbour. My mum the past few months believes that she can hear neighbours talking which she has never complained about before.
She believes the flat below is messing with her head and even last night turned around and said she got woken up in the early hours by then saying "lets mess with her head". She believes our flat is 'noisy' and louder than normal when its the same as it has been the last 13 years there's no difference in noise levels. This wasn't mentioned for a while but has started up again recently.
She is going out all the time when I am in work as she says she doesn"t hear anything but as soon as she comes in get the same coversation again as has been going on for months that they are all talking about her. At several points over the past few weeks she has even thought they have hacked her phone to read her text messages.
The flat below us has always been noisy with slamming windows and doors which I hear also. She also thinks they are recording us to try get us evicted (bear in my mind my neighbour below still bangs along walls and thuds so I dont think she is recording as that is all it will pick up herself. If was going to record a neighbour she would have to be quiet herself, which she isnt). The slamming and banging from below has been an issue since lockdown in 2020 but the voices has only been within past few months.
Also a few months ago she believes next door was following her when she went out and getting other people to follow her like when she went shopping or hospital or doctors appointments. This she hasn"t mentioned again in a while now.
When I mentioned other people have experienced the same online she basically said "if you don"t believe me, I dont want to hear it" and to "not go there". I just dont know if its more serious than just from the health issues and once it is all under control she will be fine or if its something else. I just dont know what to do and cant say anything or she flips if its not what she wants to hear.
All this eased up for abit and then recently she has gone back to a few months ago on her thoughts. It might not be diabetic related but the symptoms of parabois only came around after the stroke/diabetes. She seems to have an obsession that all the neighbour has to do is talk about her and to make threats and have a go at her, when really why would she even care about her.