Agree with iHS, I am on Accuchek pump, and different insets, but I generally find if my sets are painful when I put them in or immediately afterwards, then they need to be changed. Even today 4 months from going on to pump and sets, I had a problem with the first set I put in, as soon as I walked with it in my leg it crucified me, so I changed it to a different position. You will honestly find that you will get the right places, and the right sets to use, but it may take some monioring and discussions with DSN to realise this.
Agree with iHS about basals too.....if you have any levels above 12, then your basal rates are very significantly wrong and need to be checked out. If your levels are high or low 2-3 hours after bolus's then your carb factor is wrong.
You really need to address some of these matters, rahter than waiting for an appointment with the DSN. Get out your training manuals, read other books about insulin pumping... you will have all the answers in front of you, and at the end of the day it is you that needs to manage the pump and to live with it 24/7.
I know that I sound harsh, but I don't mean to. It is just that the sooner you take control of the pump and this new regime, the better you will manage your life with it. To me unless a DSN is actually a pump user, then she is a gudance tool who has learnt from text books or pump manufacturers or from patients experiences. The DSN will not actually have lived the life of a pump user unless she has a pump......it is a far different regime to MDI, but it is totally manageable by patients......