Does anyone else feel that their partner is either unwittingly, or deliberately out to sabotage their efforts to control DB ?
I'm currently out of work, and as such I organise most of our food shopping and prepare most of our meals, I've tried to keep some variety, but have been preparing lower carb/GI meals for the whole family. Tonight's comment was "Not bloody salad again!" (2nd time this week for a salad)
I've also been complained at nearly every evening that there are not enough "Snacks" in the fridge / cupboard - her "codeword" for crisps, chocolate cake etc!
Yesterday she had the day off work, and invited her dad over to go out for lunch - fine - I suggested going to the wimpy where I'd be able to have a low-ish carb grill, or they even do a burger in a brown bun
but was shot down and ended up in a fish and chip restaurant eating chips I really didn't want!
Tonight I've opened the fridge and found enough malt-easter bunnies in it to re-enact Watership Down in chocolate!
Am I being unreasonable in not wanting to shop for and prepare the carb and calorie heavy foods she would prefer which would then mean effectively cooking two different meals every night and to maybe expect her to be just a little bit more discreet when she munches of "snacks" that I should no longer be eating ?
My 8 year old son is trying to be more helpful than the wife, he came back from the sweetshop the other day with a pack of jelly babies for me, "Try these dad as you can't have chocolate anymore!" Didn't have the heart to tell him - pretended to eat 'em!
Mat
I'm currently out of work, and as such I organise most of our food shopping and prepare most of our meals, I've tried to keep some variety, but have been preparing lower carb/GI meals for the whole family. Tonight's comment was "Not bloody salad again!" (2nd time this week for a salad)
I've also been complained at nearly every evening that there are not enough "Snacks" in the fridge / cupboard - her "codeword" for crisps, chocolate cake etc!
Yesterday she had the day off work, and invited her dad over to go out for lunch - fine - I suggested going to the wimpy where I'd be able to have a low-ish carb grill, or they even do a burger in a brown bun

Tonight I've opened the fridge and found enough malt-easter bunnies in it to re-enact Watership Down in chocolate!
Am I being unreasonable in not wanting to shop for and prepare the carb and calorie heavy foods she would prefer which would then mean effectively cooking two different meals every night and to maybe expect her to be just a little bit more discreet when she munches of "snacks" that I should no longer be eating ?
My 8 year old son is trying to be more helpful than the wife, he came back from the sweetshop the other day with a pack of jelly babies for me, "Try these dad as you can't have chocolate anymore!" Didn't have the heart to tell him - pretended to eat 'em!
Mat