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Scared and anxious !

Heathfshaw

Member
Messages
15
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
Good afternoon ! I have been diagnosed with type 1 about 6 weeks ago , I'm having so many up and down days and I really don't know how to shake this feeling ,I am such a positive person I do everything right take my insulin and bloods when needed but it still doesn't seem right , I think in my head j thought it would all go away ... :/ I am nervous all the time now which isn't like me , the illness is always on my mind .... I can't stop crying sometimes ... It's really getting me down ... Anyone help me ...? I am not like this I'm chatty and bubbly person ...
 
Hi Heathfshaw, welcome to the forum.

So sorry you're feeling like this at the moment. Completely understandable though when you think about what's gone on in your life over the past few weeks. Major stuff.

It WILL get better, though. Once you learn the ropes, and your treatment is stabilised. It doesn't happen overnight, there's an element of trial & error to see what works in terms of insulin requirements. You'll also feel better physically once your sugar levels have come down.

There's plenty of help and advice on here, from people who've been though exactly what you are going through now. Or you may just want to rant, and get it off your chest sometimes, which is important.
 
Good afternoon ! I have been diagnosed with type 1 about 6 weeks ago , I'm having so many up and down days and I really don't know how to shake this feeling ,I am such a positive person I do everything right take my insulin and bloods when needed but it still doesn't seem right , I think in my head j thought it would all go away ... :/ I am nervous all the time now which isn't like me , the illness is always on my mind .... I can't stop crying sometimes ... It's really getting me down ... Anyone help me ...? I am not like this I'm chatty and bubbly person ...
 
Sorry don't know what happened there, anyway kazC can you tell me what your levels have been, as I am in the same boat, I expect to be prescribed Insulin tomorrow when I see Doc
 
Hi @Heathfshaw dont worry, everyone here has a lot of info and will help you and guide you through this
We are all in the same situation and first few days and weeks are the hardest but then you get used to it and life goes on and ultimately when you see the results they are the fruits of your hardwork

@daisy1 will share some info with you.

Dont be scared and just ask whatever you wish to.
 
Sorry don't know what happened there, anyway kazC can you tell me what your levels have been, as I am in the same boat, I expect to be prescribed Insulin tomorrow when I see Doc
I'm now on a pump (last 9 months), had type 1 for 30 years. My HbA1c 5 years ago was 8.5%, in my late teens somewhere nearer the 10% mark. It is really achievable to reduce levels. Takes work but plenty of support out there,
 
Being diagnosed with an incurable disease that one is stuck with for life is not an easy thing for anyone to accept emotionally.

It is not uncommon for people to experience the full spectrum of the various stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.

I guess subconsciously we all believe that this is something that will go away if we do the right thing. So when it does not it is natural that we feel down.

Things will get better.

Maybe you will not be able to cure your diabetes but you will learn to live with it. And you will live a full and satisfying life provided you do respect this disease, play by its rules and stop it from developing into any nasty complications.

Give yourself time.

Whatever you do keep doing the right things, keep taking your meds, testing and watching your carbs.

All the best

Pavlos
 
Hi @Heathfshaw dont worry, everyone here has a lot of info and will help you and guide you through this
We are all in the same situation and first few days and weeks are the hardest but then you get used to it and life goes on and ultimately when you see the results they are the fruits of your hardwork

@daisy1 will share some info with you.

Dont be scared and just ask whatever you wish to.

Hello Heathfshaw and welcome to the forum :)

The more you know about diabetes and what to do, the easier it will become. There are lots of members who can answer your questions so go ahead and ask anything you like. Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it helpful.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 100,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
Good afternoon ! I have been diagnosed with type 1 about 6 weeks ago , I'm having so many up and down days and I really don't know how to shake this feeling ,I am such a positive person I do everything right take my insulin and bloods when needed but it still doesn't seem right , I think in my head j thought it would all go away ... :/ I am nervous all the time now which isn't like me , the illness is always on my mind .... I can't stop crying sometimes ... It's really getting me down ... Anyone help me ...? I am not like this I'm chatty and bubbly person ...
You have come to the right place! I was diagnosed 8 weeks ago and it is all still a bit overwhelming but try not to panic. Everyone on here is full of great advise. Good luck.
 
Hi. Gradually you will come to accept the insulin as something for life. There are many of us so you are not alone. It will become part of normal life and not really a big problem; just give it time and ask questions if your blood sugar needs some tweaks to the insulin shots
 
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