my daughter amy is a type 1 she was diagnosed at age 4,she is now 14yrs old,she has never been the easiest of diabetics to keep under control,things were easier when she was little,my worry now is that being a 14yr old she likes to go out with her friends a lot,and over the last few months she has become impossible,she refuses to go to her diabetes clinic appointments she goes out with her mates instead,i know for a fact shes not checking her bloods when shes out because i find her machine hidden in all sorts of places,she has also been skipping her insulin injections ,i confronted her about this and she just says shes not doing it when shes out with her mates,carb counting has completely gone out of the window she just wont do it.iv tried everything,from grounding her to talking to her .we have had many rows about it but she just seems to think that nothing bad will happen to her and im just being stupid.iv told her diabetes team but im still waiting for them to get back to me,i am kept awake at night worring about whats going to happen to her,amy wont except that she can get very ill or even die,im at my wits end now ,shes even come home on 2 occasions drunk ,one night i had to sit with her as she was sick in her sleep and choked,she seems to think its funny and im just a pain for going on at her all the time,what do i do,