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"What have you eaten" Parallel Chat

I've been having a quick look online and find I can't use Google anyway. The search engine defaults to "Startpage" and won't bring Goggle up at all. I think Neil must have done something to stop it. I know he doesn't like Google - or any AI system when it comes to that. He was stating his point quite forcefully to myself and Alistair a few days ago.
 
Usual carbiferous breakfast, swedish chicken meatballs and broad beans for lunch, not sure about tea yet. It might be something random from the freezer.

I woke up in a really good mood today, and it's been a lovely bright freezing day with a little flurry of snow. I gave the birds some fresh water in their birdbath after melting the block of ice, and lots of food, which has been greatly appreciated throughout the day. I'm now getting around to putting up some curtains in the kitchen to replace the very old blind, and doing a bit of tidying as I go.

I was thinking, this is the kind of day I used to dream about when I had full time work, long commutes and caring responsibilities. Just being able to stop and watch the birds in the garden without thinking "just five minutes" is such a joy and I am so thankful for it.
 
I've been having a quick look online and find I can't use Google anyway. The search engine defaults to "Startpage" and won't bring Goggle up at all. I think Neil must have done something to stop it. I know he doesn't like Google - or any AI system when it comes to that. He was stating his point quite forcefully to myself and Alistair a few days ago.
From what I gather Startpage is a good search engine so it's no loss that you aren't using Google!
 
By the way - how do I tell if something online is Google/AI generated?
Hope this helps, @Annb .
I typed in a search for ‘diabetes advice’. At the top of the page is the AI info. This gives an overview, but somrtimes ids not accurate info.

Further down the page I have circled some websites, that are a reputable source. Using info from these sites would be ok, as long as I referenced the source or provided a clickable link.

The forum rule on AI info is there to prevent misleading or inaccurate info being posted.
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Thanks for that @Pipp. I can quite see the point about using AI generated "information". I don't trust AI (instinctively, I suppose) and have always warned my students to cross check information on whatever medium. It's just difficult to know what the source is online and when the site is reputable. Even with the reputable ones, I like to double check.
 
BG started too low but a cup of hot chocolate sorted that and I'm currently sitting at 8.1. Only basal insulin so far.

Breakfast was a large cup of cream of chicken and mushroom soup.

2nd meal will be bacon and egg in some form.

I tried snow fungus yesterday. It is quite without taste and the texture is odd (soaked it is like plastic and cooked it is gelatinous) so useful to thicken things - even sweet things, if I wanted. It made the chicken and mushroom soup pretty thick.
 
Usual small carby breakfast, ham and home made bread for lunch, probably chicken for tea.

My day started just before 4am, I'm not sure what woke me up but I peeked out of the window and saw we'd had a couple of inches of snow and it was -7 C ! This temperature meant I started worrying about my outdoor tap which is dripping a little, and then I couldn't go back to bed for worrying so had breakfast, showered and did some sorting of clothes.

I carried on tidying and decluttering a few more small things until daylight, then checked the tap (it's ok) and fed and watered the birds, who were waiting for me with great excitement. They really do reward the kindness we show them.

So now I'm starting to feel a bit sleepy and I'm considering a quick nap!
 
Didn't bother with the bacon and egg. Still quite satisfied with this morning's soup, and the many cups of tea throughout the day. I've spent most of the day asleep for some reason - even more than usual. Quite annoyed at myself. Must be the effect of the painkillers.
Left hand is still being a pain and won't take any kind of pressure without caving in. Not as painful as it was though, so I guess that's a step forward. I'm just too impatient. Right hand is working, though painful - mostly the little finger now which is sporting a large swollen joint.
BG has stuck at 8.4 all day, strangely.
 
Left hand is still being a pain and won't take any kind of pressure without caving in.
My right hand must be feeling for you and has spontaneously decided that a sorrow shared is a sorrow halved. This morning it was only my ring finger not wanting to move like it should, hurting just a little. By evening, half of the hand was swollen, warm and almost useless, and when I caught myself holding my hand above my head to alleviate the pain repeatedly I decided it was time for paracetamol.
It's still swollen and painful but not that bad.
I'm all for empathy but not sure I like my hand being this empathetic @Annb . :hilarious:

Otherwise, I have a very interesting visitor. Let's call it crisis shelter combined with social work. We've made some progress finding him a place on the very short term, more phonecalls to be made tomorrow. He's basically homeless, very much bothered by the voices he hears, on and off believing them and seeing clearly they can't be real. Healthy dose of paranoia to go with it too.

Be careful what you wish for.
Lately I've been complaining to friends that I'm dropping into a mildly depressed and bored state of hibernation, and I was looking for a way to shake myself out of that.
Cue someone I'd only met once before calling me to ask me to please pick him up from the horrible place where he lives. This took me out of hibernating quite effectively, especially when it became clear that we need to find a place to live for him with some support.

Oh well, his turn to cook tomorrow and he likes meat so I'll be fine. :joyful:
As for the rest, there will be a preliminary intake at a place that seems just perfect tomorrow, and now you can all cross your fingers that his paranoia won't extend to hearing my voice saying nasty things before he finds a place.
I'm perfectly fine offering a crisis bed, in my element helping him do the google, phonecalls, intake forms to start crawling out of the dark place he came from.
The mild psychiatric symptoms are new for me to deal with. Very interesting, somewhat worrisome.

But my own signs of depression have fully disappeared, being of use, so I think this is a good thing!
 
Let's call it crisis shelter combined with social work.
What a good thing you're doing for him, I hope he gets that supportive place to live. It's so uplifting to do good, isn't it? I know it's not in the same league, but feeding the hungry garden birds and making sure they have water to drink and bathe in makes me feel good too.

I didn't have a nap yesterday, I carried on making some progress with my clutter. I know it sounds like I should have long ago finished but I am dealing with a fair degree of overwhelm and emotional paralysis so sometimes when I am working on it, I only move things around or make a very small change. At least every day I'm doing something and I can see the difference now.

Small carby breakfast, not sure about lunch or tea yet.
 
My right hand must be feeling for you and has spontaneously decided that a sorrow shared is a sorrow halved. This morning it was only my ring finger not wanting to move like it should, hurting just a little. By evening, half of the hand was swollen, warm and almost useless, and when I caught myself holding my hand above my head to alleviate the pain repeatedly I decided it was time for paracetamol.
It's still swollen and painful but not that bad.
I'm all for empathy but not sure I like my hand being this empathetic @Annb . :hilarious:

Otherwise, I have a very interesting visitor. Let's call it crisis shelter combined with social work. We've made some progress finding him a place on the very short term, more phonecalls to be made tomorrow. He's basically homeless, very much bothered by the voices he hears, on and off believing them and seeing clearly they can't be real. Healthy dose of paranoia to go with it too.

Be careful what you wish for.
Lately I've been complaining to friends that I'm dropping into a mildly depressed and bored state of hibernation, and I was looking for a way to shake myself out of that.
Cue someone I'd only met once before calling me to ask me to please pick him up from the horrible place where he lives. This took me out of hibernating quite effectively, especially when it became clear that we need to find a place to live for him with some support.

Oh well, his turn to cook tomorrow and he likes meat so I'll be fine. :joyful:
As for the rest, there will be a preliminary intake at a place that seems just perfect tomorrow, and now you can all cross your fingers that his paranoia won't extend to hearing my voice saying nasty things before he finds a place.
I'm perfectly fine offering a crisis bed, in my element helping him do the google, phonecalls, intake forms to start crawling out of the dark place he came from.
The mild psychiatric symptoms are new for me to deal with. Very interesting, somewhat worrisome.

But my own signs of depression have fully disappeared, being of use, so I think this is a good thing!
Glad to see that your own signs of depression have diminished in the process of helping someone else. I do hope you can help your friend through his problems very quickly, or it might rebound on you. You are such a good friend to everyone around you. Some kind of Angel, Antje.

Hope that your troublesome hand gets a lot better as well. Mine seem to have reached a static level but am still hoping for some improvement, even if supported by painkillers.

No breakfast yet, but I must do something soon.
 
Breakfast was a home made cracker (made with wheat flour but very thin, so it should be OK) with some Dairylea cheese spread on it.

I Knew I couldn't make anything that required much manipulating so decided to try a very liquid mixture for the dough. I managed to get the hand whisk assembled and made the batter (bit of a struggle) but can't get it apart again so have had to leave it for Neil to fix for me. The thin batter meant I could make very thin crackers and worked well.

2nd meal, if I can manage it, will be some kind of bacon fritters either including, or served with roasted butternut squash. If I can't manage it, another cracker and cheese.
 
Lunch was a bit carbier than it should have been, but tea will be fish and vegetables. I haven't made as much progress today but I have pottered around and kept moving.

I think the very early morning yesterday has just hit me, I didn't sleep very well last night because of restless legs - I wish that was as unassuming as it sounds, but it's horrible, accompanied by prickles, stabbing and crawling sensations that make me jerk my feet and lower legs around like a madwoman.

I tried gentle excercising, elevating my legs and eventually pacing around in despair - then remembered the cure we discovered for my mum, which was lavender essential oil massaged into the lower legs. It worked! It doesn't happen every night, just once in a while, so that seems to be a suitable solution.

I think I'll get an early night soon!
 
I was introduced to the new dog this afternoon. Stands a bit more than 2 feet at the shoulder, big mastiff head, dark grey, handsome animal. It stood beside the big chair and was half hidden by the arm, but what I could see was a muscular beast. EDIT: I thought this was Hector since it was so big.

Then they brought Hector in! He is about 21/2 feet at the shoulder. Huge, dark brown, massively muscular, great big head. He's a monster, but luckily passive and well behaved so far. They are beautiful animals but totally unsuitable for the small house and garden that they have (even that is mostly turned over to the 2 pigs). Alistair and Em were on their way out to take the 2 dogs for a run on the moor.

I ended up making a kind of egg mess with bits of bacon, a baked onion and some mashed squash. Nothing special but it filled a gap.
 
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"Breakfast" was one mushroom. It was one out of a packet of mushroom crisps and immediately made me feel full.

Lunch was cream of chicken and mushroom soup. Now I'm feeling very full again and slightly nauseous. Too much cream? Maybe something in the mushrooms?

Will I eat anything else today? I'll wait and see about that.
 
Mushroom crisps sound interesting @Annb, where are they from? I hope you're feeling better now.

I had a small carby breakfast, two sausages for lunch and some cake later in the afternoon, for a friend's special birthday. I just had a very small piece and it was delicious. For tea I had a ham salad. Two of my lettuces outdoors are hanging on in a very sheltered spot, and survived -7! They look a little worse for wear but I had a few nice leaves from them. I'm going to try and get some indoor ones going under grow lights now.

I'm going to get another tip/charity shop run or two in tomorrow, now the snow has gone - I don't think our area will get the next lot, thankfully.
 
I bought the mushroom crisps from Amazon. They taste very good, but I suspect they don't agree with me. Felt rubbish all day and have just eaten a plain cracker to try to settle my stomach down. Been asleep much of the time. Maybe just an overload of mushrooms.
 
Breakfast: Avocado with some Jacob's crackers. Tea. Lots of pills already today (first dose at 03.20 and waited a bit over 4 hours to take a 2nd dose).

These hands are just not co-operating. Everything else has pretty well come back to what it was 3 weeks ago, but not the hands! A bit annoyed about that. Hands are such useful things to have. I had to get Neil to put my socks and shoes on this morning. I did manage to shower and dress by myself though - difficult, but I managed. Not sure where this is heading. There are things I can ask of Neil and things that I can't.

Just felt a bit sorry for myself and spoiled myself by eating a tiny Toblerone chocolate. Not wise.

2nd meal very much depends on what is in the shops today. Snow on the mainland has meant that lorries carrying supplies to the ferries haven't managed to get through.
 
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