Hey
@Grasue I know what you mean about all the good looking goodies floating around during the holidays! There are a few things you can do to ease the frustration of not joining in or the guilt that you overdid it....
1) Offer to take something like an appetizer or side dish that you know you can enjoy....most people don't even know they are eating something low carb or keto!
2) Enjoy a red wine spritzer or straight red wine - better than the white wine. Just make it last a while if you aren't into drinking too much.
3) Eat a salad or some other snack before you go to a gathering so that you are not feeling hungry when you arrive.
4) If you are going to a dinner see if you can find out what is being served so you can determine what you will eat and stick with it. If you can't, then eat what you can and don't worry about it - it's only one meal!
5) If you are going to a restaurant most of them have their menus online now so you can pre-choose what you will eat and stick with it! I sometimes will take two appetizers and ask them to be served as my entree. AVOID THE BREADBASKET!! Ordering soup is a good way to make you meal go a little farther as well.
6) The reason for getting together is to enjoy the fellowship, the season, good music/dancing - whatever is going on, so don't focus so much on the food....make your munchies, meal, whatever last - savor the flavors and enjoy the conversation as well!
7) If you are able maybe you can have one of the get togethers at your place - you have complete control then of what will be served
8) Probably most importantly is to relax, take a deep breath and repeat "This too shall pass"
Cheers/L