donnellysdogs
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People that can't listen to other people's opinions.
People that can't say sorry.
What a brilliant shot, hidden talents obviously, well beyond tons of patience. All the best Molly. BTW I wouldn't normally make such a comment, but deliberately eating loads a carbs after a gentle reminder is called "CHILDISH". Sorry for any offense caused. I think I can speak for several other forum members if I say that we care more about you and your health than . . . . . . . . . I think you know what I mean. Take good care of yourself.@donnellysdogs @Enclave @graj0 ....Just testing how to upload pictures of butterflies....very tired so will have to do more later but hope this one works for now...
@graj0 ...no offence taken and I agree with your sentiments entirely about his attitude....was not in the mood to cause a scene and also mindful that we had about a 9 hour flight to get home the next day so just bit my tongue and said nothing...What a brilliant shot, hidden talents obviously, well beyond tons of patience. All the best Molly. BTW I wouldn't normally make such a comment, but deliberately eating loads a carbs after a gentle reminder is called "CHILDISH". Sorry for any offense caused. I think I can speak for several other forum members if I say that we care more about you and your health than . . . . . . . . . I think you know what I mean. Take good care of yourself.
@Enclave ....Was fortunate to see the moth as evidently it only lives for about five days.....was there on our first visit and when i went back for a return visit a few days later it had gone...Fabulous photos .. Love moths .. And butterfly's, but moths are just awsome
@donnellysdogs ...thank you...am looking out for myself as no-one else will...Just look after yourself Molly56. Carers are very important in this world. Immense support to people that are or are not appreciative. So important that you take care.
Stunning .. So luckie you was there to capture its image .. You have made it immortail now ...@Enclave ....Was fortunate to see the moth as evidently it only lives for about five days.....was there on our first visit and when i went back for a return visit a few days later it had gone...
....evidently the markings on the wing tips have evolved to look like cobras heads...and the clear looking patches are transparent....was just stunning..
Hello donnellysdogs, I have read you comments about excess wee-ing, well I am in that phase at the moment and it is driving me mad. I am now thinking of going to the doctors, a task that don't like doing as they really get on my nerves, and I am not very patient at the moment.@Molly56
If OH was diabetic before you met him and for quite a while and hasn't taken any notice of you, well, to be honest you are wasting your breadth and your kindness and caring emotions on him.
The thing that particularly worries me is the excessive wee. Pre diagnosis that can be normal, along with eyes blurring, some lose weight etc... After diagnosis and meds the excessive weeing should stop, however because he is in denial he is now effectively killing his kidneys off.
Got to ask.. Have you actually asked OH whether "he wants to die a horrible death from diabetic complications?", or just asking him "what it will take for him to look after himself instead of you consistently worrying about him?"
I so hope, really hope that when you return home that something positive in his attitude will happen. I would so love to be proved wrong in my thinking on your OH?
Are you now a bronzed goddess walking through the butterflies? Have you been able to have the relaxation that you need?
After seeing my step sis this week fly over and see our parents after anal and stomach cancer and having a 3rd repair op when she goes home. It makes me just wonder how some people can find strength to keep fighting disease and yet your OH is headlong into self destruction.. It really concerns me that you are the one trying to fight his health battles.
However, Perhaps insulin is his only choice now?
I hope you have a safe journey home...
I Aggree .. I am a man and know that my wife would not allow me to be like this .. I will .. given the chance use sleep to blot out things that stress me out .. But no chance to do that as the wife would pack a bag for me. But she just has to say ... If you love me you will do...... And I do whatever it is that needs doing .. It works in reverse as well ..I really feel for you...sadly men like this don't change. They do the bare miminum that they need into a relationship...he is relying on the fact you care about him...sadly he will go on pulling you lower and lower until you make yourself ill . I think you have some hard decisions ahead of you. This man doesn't deserve you.and you deserve far far more