I've been at this weight losing game for well over 8 years, more like 10 years. The frustrating thing is that I know from my "Weight by Date" software that I have been on a calorie reduced diet for all of that time. Processed foods went out the window 10 years ago and just about everything I eat is prepared from scratch (except tinned ratatouille). Initially I was on 500 calories less than BMR, then 1000 calories less than BMR, the only time I successfully lost weight was when I stopped taking Rosiglitazone, the reason behind a lot of my problems in the first place, who do I sue? That weight loss stopped the moment I started taking Gliclazide and in fact I gained weight, no change in diet or exercise, just gained weight. Even when I increased my exercise substantially for 6 months, nothing happened except I ached a lot.
The next time I lost weight was when I went low carb but even that ground to a halt after a while. I stupidly took my GPs advice (she and the dieting profession all say the same), "you don't eat enough", big mistake, I gained 11 kgs. Not slowly, more like big jumps and difficulty was that it was tricky to spot because my weight was changing because of fluid retention, by up to 5 kgs a week, up and down for months on end and one month it didn't go. I weigh every day to get a handle on this fluid retention thing, blooming nightmare!
So the dieting lark has taught me a few things, the Harris Benedict formula isn't accurate for everyone because it doesn't take into account metabolic rate, even dieticians recognise that we will burn fuel at different rates. Hence the comments like "Your metabolism has slowed down, you don't eat enough, eat more to speed up your metabolism". I wasn't a pig in the first place and it's impossible to see where I overate. Even while I was traveling for work a lot, I must be the only person to go to Pizza Hut and only eat from the salad bar, NO PIZZA. I probably deserve a certificate for showing the chef in the hotel I stayed at in Dundalk, Ireland, how to make a Spanish omlette and how to poach eggs properly (white wine vinegar!?)
One last thing, sorry to bore everyone, I was actually seen by a psychiatrist and a dietician together. They decided I didn't have am eating problem, I have a weight problem, could have told them that. The only thing they could say about my food diary was "you eat a lot of fish". LOL LOL Not in batter though LOL LOL