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Militant Low Carbing & Body Shaming - What's Your View?

Dietitians have been very helpful, and compassionate to several of my loved ones who due to serious and sometimes terminal health conditions have had problems with their diet. Usually the loved ones were losing weight and not getting adequate nutrition. The only issues I have had with them have been around advice given regarding weight loss, and managing diabetes.
 
My nurse can drink milk, one of her patients cant, as they are lactose intolerant. Would the nurse be hypocritical to have some milk while talking to my friend?

How do we know if the doctor eats pie and chips every so often? Thats the same mentality as people who give dirty looks and make comments at overweight people enjoying a meal out, with a desert or without a desert. And how do we know why someone is overweight, their physical and mental and emotional battles on a daily basis?

Is winning a battle worth nothing if we dont see a war being won?

Too much judging going on in the world, too much hypocrisy, too much telling others to be more than human, while being less than human themselves. Its not just fat shaming, its mental health issues, its addiction issues, its everything. We have the means to support each other and up build each other globally by using social media (including forums) all we concentrate on Us and Them shaming for all sorts of reasons.

I have been to the hospital enough times to witness that they do not practice what they preach.
 
My nurse can drink milk, one of her patients cant, as they are lactose intolerant. Would the nurse be hypocritical to have some milk while talking to my friend?

How do we know if the doctor eats pie and chips every so often? Thats the same mentality as people who give dirty looks and make comments at overweight people enjoying a meal out, with a desert or without a desert. And how do we know why someone is overweight, their physical and mental and emotional battles on a daily basis?

Is winning a battle worth nothing if we dont see a war being won?

Too much judging going on in the world, too much hypocrisy, too much telling others to be more than human, while being less than human themselves. Its not just fat shaming, its mental health issues, its addiction issues, its everything. We have the means to support each other and up build each other globally by using social media (including forums) all we concentrate on Us and Them shaming for all sorts of reasons. Well if the doctor did not judge me, then I would not have thought about his eating habits. By him giving me advice on what to eat etc and my weight, then he brought it to my attention.

Its sad.
 
And I seriously wonder how many people have had amputations and sight problems due to the advice they have given out for years?
They maybe should not be "fat shamed" (even if I'm not convinced that's what the tweet was doing) but they sure as hell should be ashamed...
Yes, you are right there. I ate the foods that the medical profession told me to and put on weight and I could not understand why. When telling doctors that I eat healthy meals, they would look at me with you know that look "Hmm sure" but having said that I have witnessed on many occasion doctors nurses eating really bad foods, and it is the foods that they are telling me never to eat, which I didn't anyways. There was a piece in the paper last year I think where doctors and nurses were being told to eat a more healthy diet as some patients will not take them seriously when handing out dietary advice
 
Some hospitals will not do surgery if people are overweight, and I am not talking about people who are very obese either. I know my son had to give up smoking for 3 months before they would do hip surgery.
Yes the medical profession does like to punish the obese because 'it's their own fault', not quite the same as smoking IMO. I understand that obesity can cause problems in surgery, but the obese person needs help all the same.
 
Dietitians have been very helpful, and compassionate to several of my loved ones who due to serious and sometimes terminal health conditions have had problems with their diet. Usually the loved ones were losing weight and not getting adequate nutrition. The only issues I have had with them have been around advice given regarding weight loss, and managing diabetes.
I have been thinking about this. Do you think there's an element of feeling sorry for those who need to put on weight and one of blaming those who need to lose it? Or is it easier to understand the problems of someone who has been ill and needs to gain weight? Or do the dieticians see what works for themselves and assume it works for all obese people? Just musing, Ill run along and do something useful now lol.
 
I once went to a doctor because I kept feeling hot. He told me that I had too much lagging around my tank..I told him that he had too much around his mouth lol. Like I have said before I have never been morbidly obese just a bit overweight. It turned out that I had Thyroid issues.
 
I once went to a doctor because I kept feeling hot. He told me that I had too much lagging around my tank..I told him that he had too much around his mouth lol. Like I have said before I have never been morbidly obese just a bit overweight. It turned out that I had Thyroid issues.
Gave you a winner for your comment to the doc..... here's a hug for your thyroid issues and the fact that the doc was horrid (((())))
 
I have been thinking about this. Do you think there's an element of feeling sorry for those who need to put on weight and one of blaming those who need to lose it? Or is it easier to understand the problems of someone who has been ill and needs to gain weight? Or do the dieticians see what works for themselves and assume it works for all obese people? Just musing, Ill run along and do something useful now lol.
Surely its just that they are stuck in the paradigm that says behaviours cause obesity e.g. gluttony and sloth or if you are a slightly less medievil dietician, emotional eating or being in an obesogenic environment. It must be hard to offer advice to people that you feel are partly responsible for their own condition and advice that you know they will struggle to follow.. A person who is underweight is a more morally pleasing prospect as they are the victims of some kind even though it can be really hard for these patients to gain weight too!
 
Gave you a winner for your comment to the doc..... here's a hug for your thyroid issues and the fact that the doc was horrid (((())))
Yes I was a little annoyed with him..I was only 34 and not long had a baby 3 months previous
 
Surely its just that they are stuck in the paradigm that says behaviours cause obesity e.g. gluttony and sloth or if you are a slightly less medievil dietician, emotional eating or being in an obesogenic environment. It must be hard to offer advice to people that you feel are partly responsible for their own condition and advice that you know they will struggle to follow.. A person who is underweight is a more morally pleasing prospect as they are the victims of some kind even though it can be really hard for these patients to gain weight too!

But how does a dietitian come to that initial conclusion esp during the first consultation? I am referring to a patient who may struggle to follow given advice? I had my third A1c result given by my DN over the phone. The surprise in her voice was evident and this came after the 'threat' of insulin treatment she waved at me at our first meeting. I felt like saying 'Nuh nuh nee nuh nuhh' at her given the woefully poor dietary advice she gave me.
 
Surely its just that they are stuck in the paradigm that says behaviours cause obesity e.g. gluttony and sloth or if you are a slightly less medievil dietician, emotional eating or being in an obesogenic environment. It must be hard to offer advice to people that you feel are partly responsible for their own condition and advice that you know they will struggle to follow.. A person who is underweight is a more morally pleasing prospect as they are the victims of some kind even though it can be really hard for these patients to gain weight too!
That's exactly it in my view. People who need to put on weight are victims of some kind in the eyes of dieticians. Why can't they see that obese people are no different, there's a reason they are obese, no one sets out to be obese, just as no one sets out to get cancer etc.
 
I think they were trying to give him the best chance of living through the operation.


Yes the medical profession does like to punish the obese because 'it's their own fault', not quite the same as smoking IMO. I understand that obesity can cause problems in surgery, but the obese person needs help all the same.
 
I have been thinking about this. Do you think there's an element of feeling sorry for those who need to put on weight and one of blaming those who need to lose it? Or is it easier to understand the problems of someone who has been ill and needs to gain weight? Or do the dieticians see what works for themselves and assume it works for all obese people? Just musing, Ill run along and do something useful now lol.
Oh most definitely! Overweight and obese people are generally considered by HCPs and indeed media and general public to be greedy, idle, junk food gobbling liars. I do wonder sometimes if they ever have to complete regular Continuing Professional Development training. Surely that is a requirement for all HCPs. They have to keep a portfolio of training and development they have undertaken. What on earth do dietitians post qualification courses teach? Of course their are forward thinking members of the profession, but it seems all NHS care is now reduced to the 'tick box' guidleine protocol, that it is difficult to break away from.
Dietitians I think do tend to believe in the 'one size fits all' diet regime. Then again, so do a lot of people who evangelise about their own particular successful eating regime. We all need to think a bit outside the box, but for HCPs the fear of litigation means they have to adhere to the NICE recommendations. It must be demoralising for those who can be more open minded, and innovative, but also fear for their livelihoods should they break away.
 
Please you guys, don't keep seeing yourselves as victims of an opposed society. Most health care professionals are trying to do the best for you and don't prejudge people.

Just think of how the parents and separated kids feel who are victims of that ********* Trump are at present and it will put our little problems in perspective.
D.
 
Some hospitals will not do surgery if people are overweight, and I am not talking about people who are very obese either. I know my son had to give up smoking for 3 months before they would do hip surgery.
Anesthesia is calculated by weight, and its more difficult to calculate the anesthetic need in bigger people, especially when adjusting for the overall fat content, which absorbs the anesthetic differently . Due to breathing issues, anesthetizing bigger people and smokers is more risky, as is the risk of post-op embolism higher.

Its not punishing obese or smokers, its assessing the increased risk. Intubation is more difficult in obese people and smokers. The obese, because often the airway is more difficult to access, and for smokers the airway is often more fragile and the risk of bleeding is higher when putting the tube in.

Recovery time for smokers is longer too. Emergency surgery for anyone is always done promptly as the risk of death is higher than the risk of anesthetic.
 
But how does a dietitian come to that initial conclusion esp during the first consultation? I am referring to a patient who may struggle to follow given advice? I had my third A1c result given by my DN over the phone. The surprise in her voice was evident and this came after the 'threat' of insulin treatment she waved at me at our first meeting. I felt like saying 'Nuh nuh nee nuh nuhh' at her given the woefully poor dietary advice she gave me.
Wish we had audio posting so I could hear that!
 
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