I was a diabetic for 35 years until i had a kidney and pancreas transplant so i am having a holiday from insulin, before this and now i have or had every diabetic problem. It is great to hear she is trying to talk to someone, I think we need some help for teenagers up to people in their mid 20's as there is so many changes in life without diabetes as well. Most people go to the adult clinic aged 18 but the problems teenagers can go through before that need to be talked about, we could have a doctor who is at clinic from 14 to 25 to help them or even meeting with people of the same age and some who are older who have gone through it. Your daughter will have changed in 4 years then their is pressure from all around to do different things and some of them she can not do due to diabetes and rebels. Diabetes does not care if you want to go out drinking with your friends but you have to, i am 42 now and people now ask what is it like having a normal life. I do not know i am here because someone passed away so i could have a chance to see my children grow up, i have to take medication everyday to make sure rejection does not happen and quite a lot more and yes i still have off days when i want to give it all up but i have never had a normal life, what i have is a will never to give up, i am a fighter who when i get knocked down i get up to fight again and diabetes has done this to me but not only me but millions more and their family.