JoKalsbeek
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- Type of diabetes
- I reversed my Type 2
- Treatment type
- Diet only
I do pretty well with most family events these days, but for some reason my sister-in-law doesn't quite grasp it just yet.... Luckily, we pass by a McD's to and from her house, so I can always go get a bunless burger or two if I feel like I'm passing out with hunger, haha. So I'm very much for eating before or after, and yeah, if there's 3 things you can eat, opt for those and get the protein and fats elsewhere at another time.
As for her catering for her own needs rather than for the 40-something guests... That, too, is exactly what my sister-in-law would do. She eats like a bird, and expects others to. So when there were 8 (!) people helping with a move, they got chinese take-out for 2. And still stuff got left over because no-one dared to empty anything for fear of being rude. Another moment where I put a second meal on the table when we got home.
Make sure you get what you need, and if you can avoid conflict which could ruin your beloved sister's party, do. It'll make the experience a lot more pleasant all over, and at least we here will know someone was being a thougtless, self-centered somethingorother, and you by far her better.
As for her catering for her own needs rather than for the 40-something guests... That, too, is exactly what my sister-in-law would do. She eats like a bird, and expects others to. So when there were 8 (!) people helping with a move, they got chinese take-out for 2. And still stuff got left over because no-one dared to empty anything for fear of being rude. Another moment where I put a second meal on the table when we got home.
Make sure you get what you need, and if you can avoid conflict which could ruin your beloved sister's party, do. It'll make the experience a lot more pleasant all over, and at least we here will know someone was being a thougtless, self-centered somethingorother, and you by far her better.