A good post phoenix and one that has made me at least realise how lucky we in the UK are for our NHS I hate to think what would have happened to me a 7or 8 years back when my medical problems started, had it not been for the free intensive care unit I was admitted to for 14 days at an average cost of around £2K to £3K per day/night I hate to think what might have happened. Had I lived elsewhere and not had the very best insurance I doubt I would have survived.
I am also lucky in that I have a very good GP who I am able to discuss pretty much anything and everything with, given the short time allowed for appointments of course but if I have several things to discuss he is always OK to run over the allotted appointment time a little. I have always sent him a Christmas card every year since my respiratory and arthritis problems started, thanking him for his help over the past year, its a simple thing but I feel it helps build a relationship which I am grateful for which is why I can never understand why some people are so anti their doctors and/or the NHS. I fully appreciate that not all doctors are equal and there are a couple who I always try to avoid seeing at my local surgery but if I felt my GP wasnt doing a good job I would look for another, just as I would with any other professional or tradesman alike. I wouldnt see a bad plumber more than once any more than I would a bad doctor.
Andy, in your op you appear to suggest that no one really cares about anyone else in business or everyday life any more, I prefer to see the best in people unless they show me otherwise and if someone gives me bad service I go elsewhere, I always assume that I will get good service and you know what I usually do, I wonder why that is? Perhaps I'm just lucky eh?