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Room 101 (like the TV prog)

MrsB said:
Can we help NicolaAnne? I'm here for a totally unbiased 38 ur old girly perspective if that's not too ancient for you.

You also have my undivided attention as I am bored brainless and about to be overrun by stinky hoarded of old lady hospital patients coughing foul things at me

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Yerr wot 38, ancient?

Would it be too much to put Mrs B into 101 for impersonating an old person?
 
MrsB said:
Sometimes life feels like ****. You are always allowed to vent. Especially here as many of the problems you have we all share to some degree. We can all at least empathise and support at all times.

If I remember correctly a lot of it is work related. What type of work do you do? Is there any way of doing the same kind of job in a different company locally? Or maybe trying for a move to a different department?

Is it a confidence thing with being able to stand up to idiots you have to work with? I know it can be really hard to know how to broach certain subjects with people that are older
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Yup, this was a vent invite, after all!
 
Pipp said:
Oh, right, so we would have put you in 101 if we thought you needed to go, but we didn't. Now, you have our attention.
Do you want to have a serious conversation with folks like us with nowt much better to do?
If it makes you feel better we could start a new thread away from here.
Oh and you just vented. I was the nosey one who broke the thread by suggesting you were having a tough time.
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There is too much to vent about lol i was okay when i first posted and then there was **** at "home" and im just hungry and cranky now :(


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Heathenlass said:
I;m interested, @NicolaAnne1994
What would you like to be different in your life?
What would you change?
What would you keep ?:)

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I would change how **** the hospital was so they didnt let my mother die. I'd change how selfish my father was.
I'd change my job so that i was better paid...i understand i can do that now....but im too much of a chicken!
I would change how shy i was and to stand up to people who treat me like ****!
I'd change the fact of living in this ****** area

I'd keep my brother's, my boyfriend and this forum lol!


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MrsB said:
I would highly recommend prk scratching a. Comfort food with no carbs lol
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Eeewww! No! They are disgusting. Deffo a food item for 101.

@NicolaAnne1994
Just say the word and you can have a thread or conversation about what is bothering you.
Alternatively, just vent away here.
It helps!
 
Totally off topic but the name of this thread reminds me of the McFly song room on the 3rd floor....don't ask why just does...probably something to do with the fact they are one of my guilty pleasures ahhhhh
 
NicolaAnne1994 said:
I would change how **** the hospital was so they didnt let my mother die. I'd change how selfish my father was.
I'd change my job so that i was better paid...i understand i can do that now....but im too much of a chicken!
I would change how shy i was and to stand up to people who treat me like ****!
I'd change the fact of living in this ****** area

I'd keep my brother's, my boyfriend and this forum lol!


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Ok so we start with the 3 strong things you can immediately pinpoint. They are all forms of support when you need them. Your brothers I assume will be grieving for your mother just as you are. Have you sat down with just them and really talked about the impact it has had on you all and the different ways you are each coping? You may find they feel just as lost and angry as you. An emotion shared is often easier to process as there is more than just u there to decide what is and isn't.

Then you have your boyfriend. As you kept him out of room 101 I'm assuming he's a good one. Talk to him. Again he can help steer you out of low thinking if you are spiralling into bad thoughts. Are u in a position to try and save a deposit for a place if your own (if your dad is making life hard). If not, contacting your local housing dept is a good start. Even if they can't do anything for you yet, you at least get on their waiting list and will feel like you are doing something positive towards a brighter future . It'll be a huge boost to your personal confidence if nothing else.

Then you have us. Always always vent and talk. Don't bottle things up. We will not judge and we will not treat you like you do not count.

Sorry, message has probably crossed with others but I'm very slow typing on my iPhone. I'll send a further instalment in a while xxxxx
 
It happened 9 years ago one of my brothers was only 2, the other was 7! They seem to be fine, and dont say much when I do talk to them!
I already am on the "council waiting list" since February but they haven't even assessed my application despite my DR writing to them saying I cant be in that house no more as it is affecting me physically and emotionally! Boyfriend he is okay....he's a bloke! ha! he could be better but I guess I wouldnt have him any other way! He has his own problems too xxxxx
 
Also saving up is a no go! Am with a debt company already...20 years old and in about £2000 debt my own fault though I guess
 
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