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I do not have diabetes
My name is Wendy, I do not have diabetes but my mum does. She has type 2, tablet and diet controlled, my mum is 82 years old and lives on her own, she is very independent. I need to sort out her diet as she has been told she will be going on insulin if she doesn't sort it out, she is saying she will never go on insulin, but not willing to give up her biscuits and cake!
 
Hi and welcome. If she can cope with eating carbs, then cakes and biscuits are not off the menu. She will probably have to cut back on the amount of cakes and biscuits.
I've tagged @daisy1 to give you the newcomers information. Please read and explain them to her.
It's a question of controlling her blood glucose sugars.

Have a read around and ask more questions.
 
@Mummy's_helper

Hello Wendy and welcome to the forum :)

Here is the information we give to new members and I hope this will help you to help your mum. Ask all the questions you like and someone will be able to help.



BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 130,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
Hi there. I'm sure you want your mum to have the best quality of life so if she's very independent at 82 she warrants some special tlc. How active is she? Does she feel well?
 
Hi and welcome. If she can cope with eating carbs, then cakes and biscuits are not off the menu. She will probably have to cut back on the amount of cakes and biscuits.
I've tagged @daisy1 to give you the newcomers information. Please read and explain them to her.
It's a question of controlling her blood glucose sugars.

Have a read around and ask more questions.
Thank you, I've been looking around on the Internet, I seem to be getting more confused, there's lots of contradictions!
 
Hi there. I'm sure you want your mum to have the best quality of life so if she's very independent at 82 she warrants some special tlc. How active is she? Does she feel well?
Hi, she plays skittles although she can't walk far because of angina, she is lucky there is a bus stop outside her house so she can do most things on her own. She's in hospital at the mo after severe angina attacks, hopefully home tomorrow.
 
Of course there is.
I personally can't eat them, but someone, once in control can have what like to eat in moderation.

We recommend low carbing on here, have a read around the forum and the people on here are diabetic and have the experience of getting control of the condition.
 
Hi. I'm afraid ideally your Mum would reduce the carbs she has and make up with fats, proteins and, of course, veg. I can only suggest you find ways of her still having some cakes and biscuits but ones that have lower sugar and lower overall carbs. For example have cakes with no icing sugar on top and smaller portions. May not be easy but some changes may be possible.
 
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