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- Type of diabetes
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- Insulin
I'm finally getting myself back under control after having let everything go to pot for a while and with lchf back in place my readings are looking a lot better. I live alone several hundred miles away from the rest of my family and with some willpower when shopping I've stopped buying things I shouldn't be eating.
In a couple of weeks it's both my mum and nephew's birthdays so I'm going back up north for a bit and staying with my mum. The trouble is she really doesn't get it. The food and drink available at her's are about the opposite of what I need. She lives off highly processed food and takeaways. She'll get herself dessert and get me some without asking. My relationship with food isn't good and if someone puts something on my plate or in front of me, it's a massive struggle not to eat it which to be honest usually fails.
I've tried telling her I don't want her to do that and could she get some food in I prefer to eat but her answer is always; a little bit won't hurt you, it's your favourite, your away for a few days treat it like a holiday or my personal favourite, your dad was okay with it. My dad was type 2, didn't look after himself, drank like a fish and died of a heart attack at 58, 3 months before the birth of his first grandchild. I'm 36, I'm not on a diet to lose weight, I'm trying to make sure I'm able to lead a long and as healthy as possible life. I don't want to be cruel but a few days with her results in high readings, feeling rubbish and craving carbs for ages afterwards.
Has anyone any idea how I can get through to her other than me just putting up with it or us having a blazing row.She's a sensible woman for the most part but she likes to stick her head in the sand about anything to do with my health/well being. Any attempt at discussion about my health she seems to take as an attack on her parenting as one way or another most of my issues stem back to childhood.
I'd just like to able to spend time with my family without it negatively impacting my health.
In a couple of weeks it's both my mum and nephew's birthdays so I'm going back up north for a bit and staying with my mum. The trouble is she really doesn't get it. The food and drink available at her's are about the opposite of what I need. She lives off highly processed food and takeaways. She'll get herself dessert and get me some without asking. My relationship with food isn't good and if someone puts something on my plate or in front of me, it's a massive struggle not to eat it which to be honest usually fails.
I've tried telling her I don't want her to do that and could she get some food in I prefer to eat but her answer is always; a little bit won't hurt you, it's your favourite, your away for a few days treat it like a holiday or my personal favourite, your dad was okay with it. My dad was type 2, didn't look after himself, drank like a fish and died of a heart attack at 58, 3 months before the birth of his first grandchild. I'm 36, I'm not on a diet to lose weight, I'm trying to make sure I'm able to lead a long and as healthy as possible life. I don't want to be cruel but a few days with her results in high readings, feeling rubbish and craving carbs for ages afterwards.
Has anyone any idea how I can get through to her other than me just putting up with it or us having a blazing row.She's a sensible woman for the most part but she likes to stick her head in the sand about anything to do with my health/well being. Any attempt at discussion about my health she seems to take as an attack on her parenting as one way or another most of my issues stem back to childhood.
I'd just like to able to spend time with my family without it negatively impacting my health.