donnellysdogs said:Just solely from seeing one hubby that had naturly shrunk his stomach to one person that naturally has expanded his..... Both have had bad food and health education from their parents..
Not having a go at anybody in particular but it is concern that all gastro band people on tv have had parents and or other relatives too large too.... And some gastro people are too large to get out of bed and having to have others feeding them..
From living with one under eater... To being normal myself... To now living with an over eater... I would kljust really want to pass in my thoughts that if somebody considering or needing a gastro band they have had that education of overeating from somehere.
We have a hugely expanding---lol! Diabetic population...
I have never seen a large person on tv with or trying to get a gastro band with a thin family relative sat next to them...
donnellysdogs said:First hubby ate so little that his stomach shrank naturally.. At 24 he was a 26'' waist when I met him...
He just had never ate a proper meal till he met me and family.
I will always remember my dad cooking dinner and him just not being able to eat even a 1/3rd of it.
Sorry people... After having one hubby with a shrunk stomach and one that has an expanded stomach...
I am so sorry... But you can do your own bypass but stopping eating so much!!! Your brain needs educating to control your eating habits...
I so, so wish my hubby now could limit his food.... And reeducate his brain... But he been like it since living with his parents.. Same with furst hubby... He wasnt fed properly as a child, teenager and it contnued as an adult.
I wish so much that parents didnt influence childrens food choices but they do... If you are having to consider and have bypasses.. There is a huge likelihood that your thoughts and lifestyle being passed on one way or another to your children...
It hurts me horribky to think that larger persons needing bypasses could be giving thought and living processes on to tour children to also suffer...
Apologies for lecturing... But having luved with one person for 15 years who had so shrunk his stomach naturally that he just could not eat a normal meal... And another person for same amount of time... Who has expanded his stomach...
Do you not ever think about your upbringing and lifestyles?? Are you passing your food and eating habits on to your children..i have seen so many programmes on 45 stone people, 60 stone that I really firmly believe that bypasses may well work for an individual... But what about your children and others that have got used to having excessive foods too!!
I am size 10, lean and muscly. I serve the same food for hubby... Just that he always been educated since birth to have huge portions... I also dont dnack unless need to for sugar levels.. I dont know what he buys and eats on journeys to and at work....
Please can I ask on this posting that even if you personally cant eat normal portions... Let your children eat normal portions... Your children could have **** life ahead of them due to your genes and your lifestyles..
I wish I could contribute more towards this posting, but in all honesty from living with two extremes and being 'norm!' myself... I just so wish that people could see what they are passing on to children too...