Sorry for any bad spellings.. im writing this before i run back to my cave and hide again.
which is the general feeling i have at the moment. I have to watch what i eat, i have to lose weight, i have to give up smoking, i have to check my bloods, i have to take my meds, i have to try to eat correctly on little money, i have to do all the house work, i have to , i have to i have to
at the moment i feel like having a fit and kicking my legs like a 3 year old and screaming "I DONT WANT TO".
I was doing so well before xmas, and thought i was getting back to it, but following my Slimming world meeting last night where i had put on 4 pound rather than lost i feel like im spiriling out of control.
all the things i should be doing seam to have just piled up on my and sucked the colours out of the world this morning. And whats more my Bloods are up in to double figures cause i forgot to take my meds lastnight which will also be making me grumpy.
I see my consultants next week and im scared he is going to take me off victoza cause i havent lost weight as quick as he would have liked, but its only since i started it nearly a year ago that i left like i was finally getting to grips with my diabetes.
The reason i have not lost weight so much (i have lost nearly a stone since sept when i joined SW) is because im stuborn and struggle to give up things i shouldnt eat, even though i know its not doing me any favours, same with my smoking,.. if i give that up ill be healthier and have a bit more money for food...and i can make all the excuses in the world and then i feel like i have failed and the gilt makes the situation even worse.
I have very little support, single mum to two teenage lads, my oldest is away at uni, i lost my other half to cancer coming up 8 years ago.. and i thought i was doing ok, but im starting to sence a black cloud on the horizen.
I want to go back to study but i cant efford it, i would love to go back to work but my youngest needs help so it would have to be a day job and there isnt any of those near me even if i could get a look in, i dont drive so have to rely on public transport which isnt the best near where i live. I would love to meet people my own age (38) but all the activities around me are mainly for older people. i volanteer at two places just to get out but again most of the people i work along side are retired (and lovely, )
but i guess one of my main problems is i put on a face when i set out the house, everything is ok even if someone asks, as i dont want to be a burdon or seam like i can cope.
and sorry for ranting on but i need to get it out or im going to burst.
which is the general feeling i have at the moment. I have to watch what i eat, i have to lose weight, i have to give up smoking, i have to check my bloods, i have to take my meds, i have to try to eat correctly on little money, i have to do all the house work, i have to , i have to i have to
at the moment i feel like having a fit and kicking my legs like a 3 year old and screaming "I DONT WANT TO".
I was doing so well before xmas, and thought i was getting back to it, but following my Slimming world meeting last night where i had put on 4 pound rather than lost i feel like im spiriling out of control.
all the things i should be doing seam to have just piled up on my and sucked the colours out of the world this morning. And whats more my Bloods are up in to double figures cause i forgot to take my meds lastnight which will also be making me grumpy.
I see my consultants next week and im scared he is going to take me off victoza cause i havent lost weight as quick as he would have liked, but its only since i started it nearly a year ago that i left like i was finally getting to grips with my diabetes.
The reason i have not lost weight so much (i have lost nearly a stone since sept when i joined SW) is because im stuborn and struggle to give up things i shouldnt eat, even though i know its not doing me any favours, same with my smoking,.. if i give that up ill be healthier and have a bit more money for food...and i can make all the excuses in the world and then i feel like i have failed and the gilt makes the situation even worse.
I have very little support, single mum to two teenage lads, my oldest is away at uni, i lost my other half to cancer coming up 8 years ago.. and i thought i was doing ok, but im starting to sence a black cloud on the horizen.
I want to go back to study but i cant efford it, i would love to go back to work but my youngest needs help so it would have to be a day job and there isnt any of those near me even if i could get a look in, i dont drive so have to rely on public transport which isnt the best near where i live. I would love to meet people my own age (38) but all the activities around me are mainly for older people. i volanteer at two places just to get out but again most of the people i work along side are retired (and lovely, )
but i guess one of my main problems is i put on a face when i set out the house, everything is ok even if someone asks, as i dont want to be a burdon or seam like i can cope.
and sorry for ranting on but i need to get it out or im going to burst.