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Addicted to sugar

I ask myself, every day : Who am I doing this for?

As long as I felt I was stopping my carb addiction for others, or due to the influence and advice of others, I couldn't do it.

Once I started thinking about myself, caring what happens to me, for me, I could do it. Every day I re-commit to loving myself enough to take care of me. I am all I have. I matter. My health matters.

I took control of myself, for myself. I was the only person previously harming myself, choosing what to put in my mouth. My choices. My responsibility, my health.

The outside pressure stopped. I was back in control. Me. I can only do this every day if I want to, if I am ready to.

It may not be the right time for some posters to want to take control. And that's ok. It's your choice, your body, your mind.

Be kind to yourself, addiction is a difficult thing to deal with. Wait until you are ready. If you are not ready to do this for yourself, you won't be able to do it. It's ok. Not being ready is not a character flaw. It's called being human.
 
Dear ,

I can understand your agony.

There are a lot of sugary things with Stevia or sucralose. you can start experiment by cooking your own sweets with stevia and sucralose.
Even the smallest movement can help lower the blood sugar.

I found relief in sucralose and stevia.
I’m absolutely with you. I really miss buns, cakes, biscuits, pastries, etc. I make almond flour cakes, pastry and cookies and use erythritol or xylitol instead of sugar. I found Stevia horrible and sucralose gives me diarrhoea. This hasn’t stopped the cravings but it’s something to reach for when I’m desperate. However, all this stuff is really high calorie so not good if you’re trying to lose weight!
 
I am going back in my memory to the first six months in particular after I was diagnosed, and I see it as a time of, apart from dealing with the feelings of a shocking diagnosis, was dealing with my sugar addiction big time.

I went 'cold turkey' on sugar, but with help from simple herbs and spices, a nutritonal overhaul, and LOTS of walking. I understand @Kitt82 - that you have other medical issues that gives you mobility issues? Have I understood correctly? So lots of physical activity may not be on the cards for you? (Physical activity can be very stress relieving and you get those feel-good hormones flowing, and, helps mop up excess blood glucose so is a win win.) (And the bonus of keeping cardio vascular problems under wraps.)

As for eating. For me - supplementation for sure. Gymnema sylvestre was a good help for getting over sugar addiction. I also had a three month course of olive leaf liquid. I believe that helped me hugely with gut biome issues intertwined with my previous high consumption of sugar. (Candida! In a word.)

I used lots of ceylon cinnamon and vanilla as natural sweeteners in the low-carb baked goods I cooked up like crazy. And I experimented with natural and artificial sweeteners - I'm a great believer in substitution when it comes to dealing with a very real addiction. LIke many longer term type twos, I know the best sweeteners for me, taste and health and blood glucose wise, due to eating and metering, and for me - keeping a food journal.

I also baked a lot of apples! My cold turkey was on sugar, but not on fruit at that stage - I think it took me a year to realise, due to eating and metering and food journaling, that I had to say a big goodbye to fruit except for berries, and then they have to be super portion controled. But I could not have said goodbye to fruit in the first year. And now I have ways to have very very little, seasonally, that helps the loss of those delightful foods.

I discovered Sarah Wilson's 'I quit sugar' cookbooks in a bookshop, and bought them, even. I was also feeding my older teen daughter at my table at that stage, and some of those recipes were really good for both of us - particularly the paleo inside out loaf. (not a sweet, but palatable for the non-diabetic you might have at your table.)

In that period I discovered that no non-diabetic wanted to eat my low-carb diabetic-friendly baking! So I learnt that what was once social is now just between me and my sweet tooth and my desire for decent blood glucose levels. Since then lots more of my friends have also gotten T2D, but they are not recipe sharers, or 'lets have a diabetic friendly afternoon tea party' kind of blokes, sadly for me. :)

Is sugar addiction still a thing for me? Oh yes! Just a couple of days ago I went into an unknown cafe in a new city to get takeaway coffees, when I discovered that what must be an excellent pastry chef was working and baking in there - the sight that hit me was - ohhhhhhh! I took a photo even. And certainly discussed what I would have bought if only I didn't have T2D (and the eating of would contribute to my too early and unnatural death is my line) to a very tolerant and friendly young server, and a couple of amused cafe-patrons. (I could describe in detail the two baked goods I would have chosen a couple of days later. I don't need the photo!)

I have never and still don't have any shame over either T2D or sugar addiction. Re the latter - the sugar industry knew very well their product is physically addictive, (like with tobacco there is such a thing as 'the sugar papers'), but - oh boy, what a source of revenue. Imagine what it is like now??!!! When sugar is in sooooo many things, and where it does not even belong - like in meat and fish marinades, amongst other otherwise savoury dishes.

That Dr Vera Tarman article on carb and sweet-addiction on the dietdoctor site was a good one. I personally do not use the phrase 'food addiction' as every living human is addicted to food - I think it is excess carbs and sugar that is the issue - not 'food'! But plenty of folks use the phrase.

I love stevia, so I am lucky in that way. And of course - chocolate! I am not a dark chocolate substituter for milk chocolate, but there is a very readily available brand of stevia sweetened chocolate that I like to have for a sweet choccy treat. I admire folks for could get over their desire for sweet treats entirely, but I am not one of them.

Good luck to you on your dealing with an addiction journey! Lots of support out there, and in this forum for sure. And I do hope you find good substitutions.
 
Please help! Kind words and not so kind are welcomed!

I'm T2, and after a long time of my hba1c being 'slightly' raised,.. My most recent was 141. Yes, 141!!

I havnt changed what I eat but its all gone a bit squiffy.

However, I do have a major addiction to sugary things. I'm trying to crack down but it's honestly like an addiction.

I know, logically, that this ain't good. That I'm at risk of massive complications. But I just can't seem to get my head into it!? What's wrong with me!

I have multiple other illnesses, of which the list is ridiculous. I will share here if needed. Suffice to say the sweet things I eat don't make me feel sick, they're handy (I don't have to get up to make food).

Some sort of help, support, signposting for such would be appreciated.

I hope I've made some sort of sense!

Xx
Hello - I felt the same until I began to see my sugar/carb craving as a symptom of my diabetes rather than a personal failing (as I used to see it). This has helped me to view things differently (as did Sarah Hallberg’s TedTalk on Youtube). I still make some bad choices but have reduced cravings and significantly reduced my hba1c. I am more likely to eat veggies/fat/low carb things before anything with higher carbs or sugar and have found maintaing a steadier blood sugar reduces cravings for me.
 
There is a class of diabetes medications called the Glutides that may be of assistance for you. They are also a weight loss drug. They work by slowing your metabolism so you will want to eat less. But they have a sting in the tail. If you overeat, then the drug will make you nauseous and vomit. Its like doing a slimming diet with the instructor always on your shoulder watching you eat and telling you off for bad behaviour. I liken it to Boot Camp or the health spa of old.

Like any drug they have side effects, and can in rare cases lead to severe complications, but it may be something to research and discuss wth your doctor.

I used to be a heavy smoker, and I too had my head in the clouds, I even had two strokes and came out smoking like a chimney. Then my first heart attack, and I finally accepted my morbidity. I have not touched a fag since. (Liar - I used to light up for my wife when she was ill, so my conversion was complete because I did not take it up again) Now I am happy to watch others smoke, without any pangs at all. Don;t wait for the consequences to pay you back. like I did,
I’m on Semaglutide but it doesn’t affect me like that. I’m just randomly vomiting!
 
I feel you on this as I love my sugar though have learned to cut down. I find buying smaller chocolatees like Freddos are helpful. Also Snickers though I must measure my blood sugar after to double check. For me buying a big bar of chocolate and taking a bit doesn't work for me.
I used to have a chocolate a day when I was younger yet I alo
 
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