Most of the diabetic 2 literature that I have read mention measuring BS before meal and 2 hours after meal. If it is within 2mmol/L of your starting BS reading that meal is supposed to be okay for you. There is very little literature about high your BS should be allowed to go up between those two readings.
Also there is another issue which has never been explained properly. There is general knowledge that if you eat fibre before carbs your BS does not spike as much, but from the graphs I have seen on social media the BS stays elevated for much longer period.
So is it better to get a high spike and come down quickly (within 2 hours) or not have that high a spike but have your BS elevated at slightly lower level but for a much longer period (say 4 hours).
I wish there was some reliable information about both these issues which we could all read.
I can only tell you if my experience.
I have a tendency to have an abnormal high spike with carbs.
This is because of the first phase insulin response.
So I learnt quickly that my symptoms were caused by the high spike, cos your brain does not like rapid highs and lows in your BG levels. If you have experienced a sugar crash, then those symptoms are part and parcel of the what happens.
If I had porridge, for breakfast I would have a very rapid spike, my second phase would counter it, and for of the abnormal spikes, I would have a crash into hypo levels which increased the symptoms.
And of course, the next meal, would do the same a rollercoaster ride of BG levels.
This really affected my health.
I have to be in keto.
Which means my BG levels are in or just above normal consistently.
This is where I have to be.
No symptoms, no spikes, no crashes.
With my food which is obviously low carb, I have good natural fats.
And if I was to chance having a few more carbs, I would factor in more fats to flatten the curve of the rise derived from the meal.
I have never found fibre to have an effect other than being more carbs.
Without doubt, in my experience, the lower the spike, the better. The longer the curve is explanatory.