Cinnamon54 said:
I am newly diagnosed so I am trying hard to know what I should and should not eat. I love bread, especially toast in the morning. I love chocolate. I use to allow myself one choc bar a week, now I am thinking that will have to go or I will have to get use to the dark choc. I was told by the nurse to include carbs at each meal, so I am working my way round the forum and see that maybe I should be thinking about low carb. Very confused at the mo. Next week I go for my HBA1c (hope I got that right!) so I should find out a bit more.
I do agree GraceK that our bodies tell us what we need and what is not good for us. The other day I had a real chocolate craving and I ate too much, I felt awful for 2 days!!!!
At the moment I am just never sure that I am eating the right stuff. I would miss potatoes and pasta so much but if at the end of the day it improves things for me then so be it.
Some great advice on here which I am finding very helpful. CinX
I've only been diagnosed a month and I've honestly found the secret is to think about the foods I CAN HAVE rather than the foods I KNOW I CAN'T HAVE, I don't miss them. At first I felt confused about what I could eat and then I just sat down and thought to myself "You DO know, you've ALWAYS known, but you've CHOSEN TO IGNORE what you KNOW."
Then I made a list of all the UNNECESSARY foods that have very little nutritional value but that I continued to eat because they taste nice, fill me up, remind me of my mother ... :roll: - bread, biscuits, crisps, cakes, sweets, puddings and I just stopped BUYING them and I replaced them with foods I had STOPPED buying even though I like them - strawberries, single cream, avocado, cottage cheese with pineapple, peaches, rib-eye steak ...
And I eventually found my freezer and store cupboards contain more protein rich, more nutricious foods and hardly ANY unnecessary empty nutritional value foods. And my morning fasting BG has come steadily down from over 11 to 6.1 most days.
I'm sure the Metformin has helped a lot with the UNNECESSARY carb cravings too and I REMIND myself that I am eating carbs when I eat vegetables, I am eating carbs when I eat fruit, and that I must SELECT the RIGHT carbs to eat and not just think that carbs = the stodgy foods we all know and love. And just by choosing to eat the crispbakes and crackers instead of bread, I'm reducing the stodgy carbs a great deal and to be honest I like them and enjoy them a lot more.
My view is this - yes diabetes is an unpleasant and serious health condition - but no, we don't have to understand everything about it in one day. We have to not panic and allow our own body to communicate with us again and this time we have to listen to IT and not to ANYONE ELSE. I honestly believe a lot of diabetics begin life instinctively knowing what's good for them and what isn't but we're so bombarded with 'good advice' from well meaning sources that we end up overriding our own instincts. Our poor mothers have been brainwashed into believing this or that is 'good' for their children, I know my own father was horrified when I wouldn't eat bread as a child. To him it was an absolute staple and had to be eaten, like it or not. He had awful health problems and I have my own suspicions that he was an undiagnosed diabetic. And of course I learned to do as I was told and eat what was put before me. My parents meant well and I'm sure the NHS does too, but it doesn't make them right.
I look on my diabetes diagnosis as an opportunity to start listening to MYSELF once again, even if I am 59 and its a bit late in the day. I'm actually enjoying my food now for the first time in years. I don't HAVE to eat chocolate just because it's popular, it's well advertised and everyone says it's the right thing to do because we deserve it! It actually makes me feel sick and I like that little voice in my tummy telling me that, and now I DO listen to it.
I'm sure you'll hear your little voice very soon too Cinammon and the more you listen to it, the less you'll have to think about.
