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Diabetes And Denial

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Type of diabetes
Type 1
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Insulin
I have had diabetes 10 years now and still not coping with the fact I have it and go into denial and get depressed does anyone else go through this or has anyone been through this and survived it?
 
I have had diabetes 10 years now and still not coping with the fact I have it and go into denial and get depressed does anyone else go through this or has anyone been through this and survived it?

Yes, I think that's an extremely common feeling @charleytype1evans Type 1 is a pain.

Even people who've had it for years can go through periods of feeling worn out by it. See this thread:

http://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/diabetes-burnout.13994/

If you're feeling really down, then maybe a chat to your DSN would help? Or your GP, if you'd prefer.

Failing that, there are plenty of people here who understand, so keep posting and feel free to rant, ask questions, or just chat to people who know what it's like :)
 
I'm willing to bet that you felt a tiny bit better after making that post and sharing with us how you feel...and there's a reason for that. Sometimes it's good to just talk about how you feel and share your emotions with other people who have an idea of what you're going through.

Also, when you have a cold you usually feel awful and it's very tough to deny that feeling. Unfortunately, diabetes is often an invisible disease and it can be very easy to find yourself in denial.

This is easy for me to say because I've only had type 1 for a year now, but I think what's worked so well for me is that I talk about diabetes all the time. That may sound weird because it can sometimes be a bit depressing, but I find it has the opposite effect.

To explain a few little things and the positive benefits it has had for me:
-I often wear sleeveless shirts to the gym that show my Dexcom. I've had fellow diabetics see it and approach me only to make a new friend.
-I always wear a medical alert bracelet that says I'm type 1. That's also been a wonderful source for meeting new people.
-I post on this forum (probably to a fault), other forums, and Facebook groups

I could go on and on, but those seemingly unimportant things actually have a much greater impact on my life. In a way, making others aware that I have diabetes also reminds me as well.

Try to make an effort to spend some time on this forum and at least share what's on your mind. I can't think of a single person who has done that and left thinking it was a waste of their time.
 
I was in denial for the entirety of my teenage years, as my parents handed over control to me and it all went haywire. If anything I am still trying to adapt and learn to prevent this from hapenning. I've had diabetes for 20 years now, but the main thing that helped me get out of that rut was to decide that I was doing it for myself, taking each day at a time (no crazy long term goals for me thanks) and starting really to learn about the intricacies. I'm still learning every day, this forum is an amazing resource and if one day goes badly, that is all it is, one day. Make a note of each mistake and learn from it.
 
Thank you all for your messages it's been a big help I have had a lot of problems with my sugars and not doing them and then falling into DKA and have stopped breathing and been in a coma and still I don't seem to get out of this habit of damaging my self and denying the fact of I have diabetes and it's not going
 
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