I dont understand the problem with sex at 17, especially when i have a girlfriendNow i know this is going against the grain and very, very old fashioned, but your profile say's you are only 17 years old and if that's not correct, please tell me. As a mother, my advise to someone that age is...."what about abstaining?. Problem solved. Now before anybody comes down hard on me for that comment, first of all, do remember, i am thinking like a mother and it's the advise I would give to my children and grandchildren. Having said that, how is your health physically? Is your diabetes under control? Do you eat well ext.As usual, i have to add there is always so many more professional people who could give you advise on that score, however i don't believe it's that important for a 17 year boy.. Friendships, sport ext is something i think you should be thinking at your age. Good luck............... From a MOTHER.
I have been with her for a month and these past 3 nights have been the first time ever for me. I really don’t understand shes really sexy and turns me on easy hahaHi @type1don454647, As @Antje77 says, the physical mechanism (for want of a better word) would appear to be intact.
So it may be the psychological issue of performing sex with a partner which needs addressing. There are countless books, tapes/CDs etc. Your local library may have some. See whether there is a section on performance/performance anxiety etc (i am not stating a diagnosis just whereabouts the help you need might be found).
You, and perhaps your partner, seeing a sex counsellor is another option.
Plenty of sleep and limiting late nights, some exercise, keeping BSLs under control, no or little alcohol all might all help.
Best Wishes. Feedback of success in the form of a thumbs up is sufficient detail !!!
Ah. Je n'sais qua! I would try reading the books with her and see what happens. Are the bed sheets fireproof !!I have been with her for a month and these past 3 nights have been the first time ever for me. I really don’t understand shes really sexy and turns me on easy haha
first times, or the first several times, can be a learning curve. The feel of sex with someone else is different from the feel of masturbation. The angles are a bit different. A vagina grips differently etc etc.I have been with her for a month and these past 3 nights have been the first time ever for me. I really don’t understand shes really sexy and turns me on easy haha
Am I the only one who finds it a little ironic that the profanity filter will replace words like he11 with asterisks, presumably to not frighten the women and children, yet threads like this appear to be fine? It's a mad, mad, world
There’s no profanity here. Just a frank discussion of perfectly normal bodily functions, using medical names for body parts and activities.Am I the only one who finds it a little ironic that the profanity filter will replace words like he11 with asterisks, presumably to not frighten the women and children, yet threads like this appear to be fine? It's a mad, mad, world
In which case, first night nerves, and a certain pressure to perform well, maybe? So not necessarily something diabetes related that you need worry about.I have been with her for a month and these past 3 nights have been the first time ever for me. I really don’t understand shes really sexy and turns me on easy haha
Nil experience probably given myself a death grip from too much much masturbation ngl i only posted on here because type 1 diabetes was the first possible cause listed on the nhs siteIn which case, first night nerves, and a certain pressure to perform well, maybe? So not necessarily something diabetes related that you need worry about.
What about your girl friend experience wise - would she be able to give you a helping hand?
Robbity
Nil experience probably given myself a death grip from too much much masturbation ngl i only posted on here because type 1 diabetes was the first possible cause listed on the nhs site
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