I know a drink with dinner keeps me lower. Spirits over wine too. I enjoy my drink ( or two, day dependent) and as bad as this sounds, it keeps me sane. I've given up so much in the name of D I won't give this up. At least not yet.
Stress is the silent killer and my drink (s) help me unwind.
As stated if one doesn't drink, I wouldn't start but this is my 'routine' and it works for me.