I tell you what, as a manager, if someone was honest enough to tell me I'd favour that over just ability. There are many qualities we possess in life, honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness, graft, and managing yourself are but a few along with punctuality and taking responsibilty. If you're diabetic you have to take responsibilty be honest, manage yourself, be honest. If you can't be honest enough to tell me, how could I manage you and give you the necessary support you need? Every wednesday I have blood tests due to blood clotting issues that will blight me all my life. Work are great and know if I'm in late, I'll work late, plus I travel the length and breadth of the country to fulfill my obligations. If I just turned up at ten and not said I have diabetes and coagulation problems, my boss would question my commitment and if I said, "oh, by the way, I have diabetes", he'd probably be stunned at my clandestine manoevers and think (a) I'm a liar, (b) I'm secretive, (c) can I be trusted with sensitive information, if I can't be ar$ed to be honest about myself, (d) if he'd have told me, we could amend his working conditions and flex his hours and I'd be aware if he suddenly takes ill.
I have a good work relationship. I tell him if my bg is not right and get it right and stay late and the onus is on him, but he knows I'm committed and can be relied on. There, bring out your shovels and pitchforks. I do have a disbility and am upfront and honest about it. I'm not ashamed and am not afraid to be labelled as such. I didn't f**king ask for it. If I lie to myself and say I'm a regular person who doesn't need medication, someone call a doctor and see if I can get a brain transplant, so I don't ignore my condition/illness/poor performing pancreas/disability. If you can live normally without meds, you're ok and I doff my cap to you.
I hope this finds you all in fine fettle, if not, hang in there and don't be afraid to speak up, we're here to help.
Mart (T1 and completely unashamed)