Our nearest and dearest don't like to "see us going without", but to be honest, they wouldn't like to see us without our health either. I'm sure they mean well. I know those who would say "surely one or a little won't hurt" certainly meant well, but if eating something upset your tummy, sending you rushing to the little room, they would be unlikely to be persuading you to eat it. I've just been advised to go gluten-free, which I can't say I'm ecstatic about, but I'll just have to get on with it in the same way I handled the carbs. We'll all get the hang of it soon enough.