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People that can't listen to other people's opinions.
People that can't say sorry.
God bless her.
She is indeed one of life's survivors.
I guess no improvement for her just good or the best pain management possible. I thank god she is in the UK and attempts have been made to improve her situation. Thank god for the nhs!
I doesn't bare thinking of the alternative.
Her medical history is a very very inspiration story.
You really feel passionate about her. You are a good friend and I'm sure companion at times. A lovely very strong lady.
Respect to her, indeed. And you.
Many could take inspiration from her.
I'd ignore medical advice if I thought I'd improve my situation but many do rely on pain relief to get on with their life. I'm one but hate every day of it. I'll need accept disability...its just not me. I won't be happy til I'm the ickihun of the past but older. I refuse to let that need go. After all what's my alternative. I eat what I like and get bed bound and die.
Just like your friend we are fighting our own separate fights everyday...sometimes just to walk. I didn't bring my diabetes on by neglect I was psychological conditioned by my parents and I've fought that ignorance ever since.
Fighting a fight without NHS support most of my life. It is only until I cannot walk am I asking for help and luckily the NHS can help me. I appreciate many cannot be given a chance to turn things around and have to go through stages of acceptance along the way.
Your friend is fantastic in her quest. She is indeed a medical soldier and defeats her enemy most days.
We are all doing the same but in different variants. Obstacles that are huge to us but maybe not to others.
The mind has a lot to do with it. I've always known that.
Her family may not be around but her circle now must be keeping her level and I'm only fully aware how damaging the wrong people giving support, the damage they can do. (Mentally).
I thank god for what she does have and wish her every strength and conviction to continue fighting her daily fight. Bless her.
I wish her huge wellness and continued strength.
Your words are inspirational...psychological condition by parents is a huge factor in all our lives... and that alone can be hard to change or live with to be honest.
One thing I know that my pain psychologist told me and stays with me though is that we have to accept what we are-we cant look back to say "5 years ago I was so active".... she told me that tgey realise now that pain is real and its a good step to get help to handle that pain by accepting it and using the distraction techniques and changing our ways of thinking about it...
I was in agony with my radiotgerapied chest, still am to the same degree but my thinking about it is different now... and therefore I accept what I can do rather than thinking what I can't do.
It just goes to show just how significantly individual we are but how some things like the parenting aspects are all so similar..
Thank you for words around my friend. She has brought me absolute brighness in my life. My hubby and dog agree to, she is my true wellness factor.
I will pass on your comments to her. Thankyou...
And best wishes to anyone trying to get thru the pain in life and fibro.. just never give up...