• Guest - w'd love to know what you think about the forum! Take the 2025 Survey »

Hello from returning member whose had a serious loss of control over 2015


Slip ups and "lapses" are inevitable for me. My task is to stop one or two day lapses turning into months of poor eating. I'm in the zone at the minute but I need to find ways to stay there. I'm just about the opposite of vegetarian, more of a carnivore. This means I just can't fill my plate with greens, etc as I hate them. I've managed to find a few veggies I can eat but I prefer pulses and root vegetable to brassicas and the like. One solution for me is my wife's home made soup. I can eat almost any vegetable once it's been turned into soup.
 

I'm on 4*500mg Metformin and tolerate it reasonably well but it does give me a bit of tummy ache and affects the toilet. I recently visited my son a few hundred miles away for four days and, for the first time, forgot to take my medication with me. Shock horror! But actually I felt really good for a couple of days and my tummy returned to a healthy normal for that time. I'm back on them now, of course, but it showed me what they were doing to me.
As on one of my other replies, I'm afraid I'm a carnivore. It would think it would be so much easier to eat sensibly and lose weight if I was a vegetarian!
 
You seem to have a good grip on all this, I can't find anyone to take me seriously, I know I am breaking down

Brenda. I know how hard it can be. I walked 5 miles the other day (and was pretty sore at the end of it) but six months ago I could hardly walk to the pillar box at the top of our street (about 500 yards, if that). The trick is to start with a few small changes. £Eat a little better for a couple of days, walk to the end of the street and back. Then just try to build it slowly. You'll be surprised how far that approach can take you. Chin up!
 

Luckily, I've never smoked (although both my parents were 40 a day addicts so I got a lot of secondary smoke when I was young), but there is a big difference in my view. People can give up smoking completely (I know it's hard but some manage). You can't give up eating completely. It's the equivalent of cutting down to three cigarettes a day or similar. The temptation is always there.
 
Reminds me of my childhood stuck in a car with everyone smoking and i used to be stuck in the middle, yay childhood memories. I think the thing that makes diabetes so hard to deal with is the fact that food affects us all so differently so its not a one size fits all. I have read so many good suggestions in this thread, Ive even picked a few good ideas. I know for myself anyway it seems like an ever revolving door, sometimes I cruise around with no worries and other times im speeding out of control.
 

I can well remember sitting in the living room with the smoke so dense you felt you could cut a cube out of it. So far I've not had any problems but if there's any truth to this secondary smoke theory......
 
So Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday in the first week of my tighter regime were great. Yesterday, Thursday, wasn't so good with a day of picking at biscuits and sweets. Not maybe "red" in my scheme of things but definitely "amber". After a bit of thought, I think I can see what the factors were:
1. Stuck in the house all day on my own waiting for a delivery and nothing much to do.
2. Didn't have enough to eat on Wednesday, so pre-programmed to eat more on Thursday.
3. No exercise of any kind.
4. After 3 o'clock, setting up new computer. Lots of waiting for files to copy and format. More coffee and biscuits!

So back on the wagon today. Hopefully walk or gym in the afternoon.
 
Really bad day to day. Gorged on rubbish all evening. Probably over 3000 calories. Rubbish. And Indian meal tomorrow night! Sunday is going to have to be austere ready for a new start on Monday. First attendance at the NHS weight clinic on Monday! It was all going so well.....
 
Went out today for lunch had a whole pizza with the toppings of saturated fats, followed by a latte. Then had a friend come round to visit and we sat and ate Mince Pies and had lattes (sachets) - then later on when my partner went to bed early, got out a 300g bag of Vanilla fudge and scoffed the lot! I don't care because my partner and I had a row earlier in the day, so it's their fault for upsetting me. (got to put the blame on someone for my binge) Anyhow, I enjoyed going off the rails and we should once in a while.
 

This was on Friday. (As its now Saturday).
 
I wouldn't like to be you on Sunday morning
 
Hi. Drinking LOTS of water in the hope of 'diluting' the sugar in my blood from eating all that fudge. But, I bet I will have a high blood sugar reading in the morning. And I have the 'Sweats' too, I find this happens whenever I eat sugary foods within 15 to 20 I have a sugar rush and just sweat for hours.
 
If everyone knows I am diabetic and out of control why do they buy me so much chocolate for Christmas, are they trying to kill me? I have a big box of thorntons in front of me right now left by someone that just gone to bed. Incidentally a member of my family worked for Stoerk marketing and had unlimited supply of free chocs and sweets like bendicks and wetheralls.
 
you should try the menapause - it's always hot and cold flushes for years, not to menstion the rest
 
Right - I'm on my way round to your house, shall we 'pig out' together? Won't feel as guilty then with someone else doing it...... Time I went to my bed, have enjoyed our banter. Good Night. William.
 
I had a bad day yesterday eating all day but on the bright side I managed to only eat loads of chicken and my LC baking so for.me that is a bit of a.milestone as I usually go for biscuits ect. @Dougie22 I know what you mean about being stuck around home, I usually get unstuck in the weekends when Im around home more. Dont despair about going off track it happens and unfortunately usually more often than we would like but just get yourself on track when you can.
 
My bg levels have gone crazy as I the stress of Xmas have affected my mood and depression. I know I need to get my head sorted before I can get my diabetes back under control. !!!
 
I don't care because my partner and I had a row earlier in the day, so it's their fault for upsetting me.

Been there. Got that T shirt! I definitely turn to eating rubbish when we fall out or she abandons me. You'd think I was 4 years old.
 

I'm sure my readings are very high when I've had a bad binge. So sure, in fact, that I never take any. Talk about burying your head in the sand!
 
Cookies are required to use this site. You must accept them to continue using the site. Learn More.…