Hi
@coby ,
Can I also second the suggestion that you just scroll past posts that you don't find helpful and see how you feel at the moment.
I know that I am particularly prone to whining and I can. also take offence to someone who doesn't mean it in the way that I have taken it.
The world is a scary place right now. I know that I am more tired and anxious then usual and that is when I am more prone to being sensitive. I understand how you can feel upset by a post even if it not actually meant to hurt you. I was 'told off' when I posted some advice and initially felt hurt but when I had time to reflect the Mod was exactly right- I had missed some thin g in the post and my 'advice' was off. I was so grateful to the Mod- the last thing I want to do is to cause any harm at all.
My experience with this forum is that people are genuinely wanting to help and are largely n on judgemental. I could not continue without it. I also appreciate the amount of work the Mods do to keep this site being like this. There are literally thousands who go on from time to time- their task is pretty overwhelming and I am so grateful to them.
Take the advice which helps you- help others when possible.
Take care of yourself and remember this time will pass