Hi Dawn,
Sorry about the diagnosis, but here's the good news: Now you know what's wrong, and you can FIX it. There's no cure for diabetes, but 8 years ago I was very weak in my muscles, fatigued, blurry vision etc too... On top of a bunch of other things, like constant thrush, bladder infections, very severe depression etc. And a non-alcoholic fatty liver that was maybe a year or two off from killing me, who knows? So I did what you're doing now: Tried to find information on what I could do, because I at the time, responded badly to the meds I was put on. And I felt helpless, so... I needed some empowerment. And yes, like you, I found a whole lot of contradictions online, in books, from the medical professionals I spoke to, everywhere... Waded through all that, came out the other end, and today I walked across town and back with camera gear to an appointment to get my feet checked. While back then I couldn't even manage walking through our little flat.
It gets better when you get control.
So this is how you get all that sorted: Get yourself a meter, so you know what is happening with your blood sugars. (
@Rachox can provide information on those for you). In the meantime, realise that
you're unique. Your body, the rhythm of your life, likes and dislikes, your insulin sensitivity/resistance, all of it is unique to your person. So something that works for one person, might not work for you. That's where the meter comes in. All in all, carbs turn to glucose once ingested, it's not just the sugars that make our blood sugars go high. What you want to know is what specific foods/drinks do to your blood sugar levels. Then you find out what you can "safely" eat, and what causes a spike you find to be unacceptable. I mean, some people can have oats while others -like me- can't even look at them without spiking. You want to know where you are on that spectrum. Basically, you test like this: Just before your meal, and two hours after the first bite. Right when you're starting off, the numbers are likely to be high, but that's okay: you're just beginning. What you're aiming for is a rise of no more, and preferably less, than 2.0 mmol/l between the two measurements. If you can keep that down consistently, your over-all numbers will go down towards the normal range as well.
https://josekalsbeek.blogspot.com/2019/11/the-nutritional-thingy.html should help with the basics, but just keep in mind... You're you, you're not anybody else. Trust your meter and don't get badgered into some expensive diet or supplement or whatever, when you can get this sorted just by eating a little differently than you've been taught is healthy. (Because the EatWell plate is not designed for people with insulin resistance!)
You'll be okay.
Life's about to get better.
Hugs,
Jo
PS: As your bloods change, so will your eyesight. DO NOT BUY EXPENSIVE GLASSES! I tossed hundreds of euro's down the drain that way, alas. Your vision'll be changing for a while, as the overload of sugar in your eye and tears, stops distorting your vision. Just stick with the cheap reading specs, those should be able to tide you over for the few weeks this'll likely last!