Tell you the truth Kat the grief over the loss of my dog was just like a human. She was my best loyal friend and has taken years to get over. Sorry about your cat too.
I agree
@eddie1968 it is so hard to loose a pet ...breaks my heart .....that is why I don't have a cat or a dog anymore , or not just yet anyway ...the pain is just to much ....
We always had border collies when I was growing up .....many years ago ....
Parents who are frail , still have three now ....my father with short term memory walks them everyday , not far these days ...it is amazing ....keeps them going though ...
I remember they always went to wales to buy their doggies ....we lived in warwickshire so I guess it was not far .....and the dogs always came off farms ....I can remember them all....
We have had two cats ...one day I just might be ready ....I am addicted to trying to find all the lost cats and dogs ...people are heart broken and where do they all go .....