That's a difficult one to answer
@BadgerPaul .
A spike seems to me to be a very individual thing, one person's spike is someone else's Ideal.
Don't forget we all have different metabolisms, weight, activity and severity of T2.
Personally I like to keep my post meal rise to no more than 2mmol, but I don't take any medication for my T2, I can't go too low , so I can safely cut as many carbs as I need to, to achieve my desired levels.
Someone like yourself , taking insulin , may not feel comfortable with my glucose levels.
What I'm trying to say is an acceptable spike after meal's is whatever is acceptable to you.
Only you can know if any rise is too much for you.