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The SCREAM thread

ellagy said:
If she/he wants to be snitty Robinredbreast then let her! It will be she who loses out in the end. Sending loves and hugs for you xx
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Thank you x, It was male, makes me mad now, but have not bit back .................. yet :mad:
 
Sable_Jan said:
What a strange request.... if I knew about it, I'd just say so....I think....
Big hugs
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It's complicated Jan, two do not want anything to do with a very close one and everything was kept very quiet, but now this person has found out and I tried to be as diplomatic as possible, families !!
 
Robinredbreast said:
It's complicated Jan, two do not want anything to do with a very close one and everything was kept very quiet, but now this person has found out and I tried to be as diplomatic as possible, families !!
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Im the black sheep of my family, so they don't bother me..:D
 
Robinredbreast said:
Received some messages today about someone close who recently passed away and did I know about it, then someone else ( another family member) asking me to say I didn't know anything about it and I am stuck in the middle, but don't want to tell a big fat lie and it is putting me under stress and it's upsetting too, arrgggghhhhhhhhhhh :arghh: l
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Oh no. I wish they wouldnt do that. All that responsibility keeping the peace. I hope it isnt for long.
 
Robinredbreast said:
It's complicated Jan, two do not want anything to do with a very close one and everything was kept very quiet, but now this person has found out and I tried to be as diplomatic as possible, families !!
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Sorry for your loss, Robs, and I'm sorry that your family are adding to the stress. They did put you in an impossible position and whatever you did it was going to cause you upset. Sending you big hugs xx
 
mist said:
Im the black sheep of my family, so they don't bother me..:D
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As I said, families !!!!!!! I knew this person would eventually find out, but tbh what happened has nothing to do with them now, as they are no longer related and if this person wasn't told and it was kept very hush, hush, there is a reason for that.
 
debrasue said:
Sorry for your loss, Robs, and I'm sorry that your family are adding to the stress. They did put you in an impossible position and whatever you did it was going to cause you upset. Sending you big hugs xx
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Many thanks, but I knew it would eventually come out.
 
debrasue said:
Sorry for your loss, Robs, and I'm sorry that your family are adding to the stress. They did put you in an impossible position and whatever you did it was going to cause you upset. Sending you big hugs xx
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Dammed if I did and dammed if I didn't :(
 
Whatever is going on. Baby Jesus understands..:D

Try not to stress about it too much RRB, have a jammy doughnut instead..:woot:
 
Robinredbreast said:
It's complicated Jan, two do not want anything to do with a very close one and everything was kept very quiet, but now this person has found out and I tried to be as diplomatic as possible, families !!
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Ah, understand now... a "why didn't you tell me if you knew" scenario.....
Reminds me of my Dad well before he died..he said "when I pop me clogs you don't need to be telling x,y,z (relatives) if they can't be bothered coming to see me when I'm alive, they don't need to bother coming when I'm dead".....
 
Sable_Jan said:
Ah, understand now... a "why didn't you tell me if you knew" scenario.....
Reminds me of my Dad well before he died..he said "when I pop me clogs you don't need to be telling x,y,z (relatives) if they can't be bothered coming to see me when I'm alive, they don't need to bother coming when I'm dead".....
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Your dad was right ;)
 
mist said:
Whatever is going on. Baby Jesus understands..:D

Try not to stress about it too much RRB, have a jammy doughnut instead..:woot:
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Chatting with lovely people/friends on here is a great help, I can't eat jammy doughnuts, but there is an unopened pack in my freezer that my teenager hasn't devoured yet :wideyed:;)
 
callyandy said:
we grow to be like our pets!!:rolleyes:
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