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Type 2 and chronic fatigue syndrome

i got glandular fever first.
Mine started after my husband was made redundant from a job that he'd been in for 38 years. I think I had a breakdown as it a very stressful time. I started to feel dizzy all the time and couldn't walk unaided and would sleep constantly. My gp sent me for masses of scans and tests to check for a brain tumour, MS, lupus and anything else she could think of. I went to the library and looked at lots of different medical books and then came across one written by a woman who had ME. It described exactly how I felt so I went back to the gp and said I think I might have ME. She sent me to a doctor Patrick at Crumpsall hospital in Manchester as he was the only doctor able to diagnose ME. After all the pressure tests etc he told me that I had fibromyalgia which is linked with ME. I can't complain about my treatment as I was provided with an experienced ME nurse to help me find coping methods and how to learn to pace myself.
 
My story was that around 2 years ago I was in a job I loved, my own home and living the dream. I had been to my docs because of an illness I couldn't shake of and bloods were taken. At 3am the next morning I was woken by heavy knocking on my front door the hospital had sent a doctor to my house as I had hba1c of 138 and was taken into hospital needless to say was diagnosed type2 that day. I did start getting things under control but then everything started to fall apart and was finding it hard to do my job and ended up taking time of. My health worsened very quickly and ended up retired on health grounds within a couple of months and as a result I lost my home and no longer living the dream.
In the past 6 months or so I now use a wheelchair to get around and have had 3 suspected heart attacks and been diagnosed with unstable angina as well as other health problems so within 2 years I have gone from being fully active to almost fully wheelchair bound and still not 100% got answers to why or how.
I'm just hoping that the CFS clinic will have the answers for me or know a person that does.
I know that some don't see CFS as a illness but as a joke or excuse to throw a sicky but I wouldn't wish this on anyone not even my worsts enemy to be in pain 24/7 that keeps you awake for days and drains you that much that you can't do the most simplest things and wonder if this will ever end. I am so tired but I can't sleep because of the pain anyone got a baseball bat
 
I took me 12 years, and a psychiatrist to get a diagnosis. I have anxiety and depression, but my psychiatrist knew there was more going on. You will be in my thoughts.
My bariatric psychologist mooted fibromyalgia with me. After 2 nurses have mentioned it before hand. Mind you I'm having an internal bacterial infection going on at mo. Increasing my back and lung/rib pain.
Does CFS come without pain? Fibromyalgia with pain?
I really havent a clue about these conditions . Always been Full of energy til 2nd labour. Took off insulin and diabetes went bananas. Energy was off and on but now off.
 
My weight loss team and GPs are helping me avoid steroids, for uncontrolled asthma and weakness/pain. Thank god.
Id definitely be bedridden if they got involved.
 
I'm encouraged to pace my weekly responsibilities but sometimes not possible. With young kids something always crops up.. Like now school closed so more food shopping and maintenance of home and hygiene. Partner moans through it all. Sometimes.

After reading this thread I feel stronger to insisting on my pace. . That I need.
Thank you @lucylocket61 for creating it.
 
You know when they say 'pace yourself'? well, when I am bad with CFS pacing myself is not an options. Even breathing feels like hard work. I lose any choice about what to do or when, just keeping breathing and getting to the loo is a mountain to climb.

and yet I still dont qualify for any sickness benefit because I can type.
 
 
From my daughter's experience the factors which I believe caused ME were bullying primary school, a 'go until I drop' personality and then flu which almost immobilised her for 3 months, she missed 2/3 of her secondary educ. She in her 30's now stress/panic attacks followed her until recent counselling, which has helped get this under control and she does well but has to be careful not to push herself too hard or rather to know when to stop.
 
 
I really really identify - have been stuck in bed 2 days this week. Just utterly knocked out. Low carb diet good, blood sugar good. Just chronic fatigue syndrome, not diagnosed yet though have been having tests for 3 years. No good avoiding naps - my life is one big nap at present!!
 
Just to let you know that eldergarth, was diagnosed on Wednesday with cfs and fibromialgia. He now has to wait for a treatment plan to be put in place .
 
Thank you for the update @tina_marie

All the best to you both, and I really hope that @eldergarth getting those diagnoses will help him to get the support he needs.

Please keep up updated?
 
I didnt realise you have ME/CFS too : (
I hope I don't even have fibromyalgia but GP wants to wait til after my op to investigate.
On dihydrocodeine instead of tramadol which is settling in nicely. Sleep too, maybe. I need a few more days of sure 5hrs non-stop to know its my new med. It seems pregabalin with new dihydrocodeine kept me wide awake.
I do wonder why tramadol is the best drug for fibromyalgia? Or do they mean the similiar level of pain relief is ideal. Moderate to severe pain relief.
I like pregabalin but does swell my fingers and lower legs, giving me tight skin. However worth the trade for better balance due to supported nerve to baby toe, for me.
I think my exhaustion is due to pain in walking, no other movement exhaustion. However I may be wrong but should know more after a few weeks of less painful walking. Unlike tramadol thou dihydrocodeine doesn't take all my walking pain away.
 
Thank you for the update @tina_marie

All the best to you both, and I really hope that @eldergarth getting those diagnoses will help him to get the support he needs.

Please keep up updated?
I will do , we had to change hospitals as Ron wasn't getting anywhere at our local one. Two years of attending different clinics and nothing . Two hours at Derby royal and he gets answers .
 
And we all know not due to obesity as I wouldn't say your weight to height would construe that.
I'd understand if I was tired due to my overweight weight. Definitely not you thou.
 
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