Hi Snogoose, and welcome, with testing, do a test before your food, then about an hour after to see the spike and finally just over two hours after your meal to see how well you have coped with the results of what you have eaten, effectively whatever you tested before eating, that reading in mmols (for example 5.3) should ideally come back down to within a maximum of two points of that by the two hours period end,
(for example under 7.3).
In the morning you may well initially experience what I believe is called a glucose dump into your system from overnight, initially that may show up as quite high, I found that to be the case myself, but nearly three months on now, with good testing and monitoring, my morning reading can be down to 4.5.
The spike you read for your blood glucose at the 1 hour point lets you see how your body reacts initially to the glucose it gets from your food, I have had spikes as high as 13 mmol in the past, but now that I know what food types cause large spikes I can avoid those and now rarely hit higher than 8.7.
The main thing is to test yourself on a regular basis to see what is affecting you, do not let any doctor, nurse or anyone else tell you not to, you must test or else you will not get into the routine of watching what you eat or how it affects you, once you have gained that knowledge and are aware of the good foods and the not so good ones, you can still regularly test, only the spike point will no longer be a big issue by then as much as it is now, and finally on the testing, you do not have to pin puncture yourself to extremes, give it time and you will become very self aware of how your body reacts to stimuli and various foods and drink, do not despair.
There are a great many people on here very eager and willing to help, with a great amount of genuine knowledge, have a look on the diet doctor website for food and drink information too.
You are not alone, really you are not alone,