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Ah, progress...

But hard to say it's 'better' for it it many ways.

A lesson in the weight of generational change grinding down long established practices.

And those in power believing that THEIR power is set in stone & can't be swept away .


Seems the dinosaurs taught us nothing ...





Except maybe to dance ....

Ok people, with me...let's MOVE

 
Creative is for the write up @jjraak
But you need a hug emoji, a winner emoji, and more...
It has been a roller coaster of a cruise.

It can be hard work when the downs or doubts descend, their little velcro hooks attach so tightly and persistently...

That sounds good what the gym trainer said to you...maybe you should try teaching. Gym Coach?

Enjoy that brekkie buffet...
 
Though there was a park nearby when I was a child and we had moved from Liverpool down to Plymouth my childhood memories don't include climbing trees I much preferred climbing around the ruins of the bomb sites and I still have the scars to prove it.

Though my cousin who lived outside of Plymouth did like climbing trees then he fell out of one fracturing his skull was never the same happy go lucky lad after that.
 
Maaaaarvelous
 
It was all good experience for us as children to assess and learn about danger @Krystyna23040
Agree. Up to the point 'to assess'

They say we learn fear
I just think as kids we were fearless

Like many of you it seems, bomb sites, building sites, abandoned buildings were our playground too.

Running on high ledges and leaping from warehouse roof to warehouse like ninjas, playing life out, the way today kids do on computers, without the respawning & extra lives if you got hurt.

Not to mention the thrill of speeding down a hill with brakes barely there, on bikes serviced & maintained by 10 year olds.

I doubt any assessment was every done.

We simply egged each other on, that it was safe, we were 'chicken' and we watched others did what scared us, so we followed.

I think our parents would have been rightly horrified (I know I am now ) at what we got up too as kids

Yet somehow we survived (mostly ) to play another day. .. tho' gawd knows how.

Fear...we learn it .

And danger...mmhh

It needed a volunteer to be badly injured, to show us in glorious details the risks, before we went , 'yep, that's dangerous'

And likely we went back to doing it anyway, the very next day ....

Happy days of a childhood long gone .....
 
Though my cousin who lived outside of Plymouth did like climbing trees then he fell out of one fracturing his skull was never the same happy go lucky lad after that.
Sorry to hear that

Such a delicate instrument the head .

Lad our way when kids, playing chicken on a crossing
Got hit.

Never the same after
Couldn't tell from looking but just reckless with no fear .

Nephew had injury as kid, same for him..sister says he wasn't the same after

Lovely lad, but it's like a switch goes on at some point and fear just leaves him.
 
If I die ......

I'm coming back as one of your cats
 
Morning all - just - from sunny Suffolk - again just. @gennepher thanks for the creative, MIL has a thing for sheep, and account of the love and devotion you show to those cats. Seque into @jjraak who wishes to be reincarnated as one of your cats and his wonderfully creative post on his cruise and that return to the gym . Bravo for the motivation and helping others. @dunelm good to hear that yesterday was a triumph and hopeful;y today will also be a success. Thanks for yet another splendid piece of art. @gennepher @Krystyna23040 @Annb @jjraak and @JohnEGreen interesting stories of childhood adventures and longing for the clock to be turned back whilst accepting that the past is a foreign country. I climbed trees but most of the area was covered in fruit trees so heavily patrolled and setting ladders correctly was safety 101. Considering I couldn't swim until I was 61/2 - nor could any of my fiends as far as I know - spending so much time near rivers and washes was ridiculous. I was sternly warned away from gravel pits as a relative had drowned. @alf_Josiah - you and a normal day - rofl. Interesting story re the consultant - could have misfired badly but fair play to you and him. @JohnEGreen what a wonderful thing for your grandson's friend to do and hug for BIL and family.. @lindisfel Congratulations to Dylan in his table tennis. Rightly proud grandfather. Children and grandchildren follow their own paths. Ours seem more science and maths oriented which is a mystery to me and if I'm honest disappointing but I'm glad they use the gifts they've been given. Enjoy your day whatever those slings and arrows deliver. Evri picture of a door tells a story of some kind of delivery - sometimes wide down the leg side.
 
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Okay let me rephrase that 'assess' @jjraak

No we didn't assess as children, we dived recklessly in...

What I means was, but phrased it not well...was...

"It was all good experience for us as children for when we grew up to be adults to be able to assess and learn about danger"


Because without that danger as a child and risk taking, they don't build up the confidence and valuable life skills they need as an adult.

I explained dangers to my 3 kids after whatever, but I never stopped them in whatever, like most parents did at that time to 'protect' their kids. It taught them intuition and survival stuff in tight situations in adulthood.

None of them are scared to attempt anything in adulthood.
 
Thanks Ian
 
Hope your BIL recovers quickly from all that trauma. Eyes are a worry when things go wrong.

Also hope your grandson's friend finds his family safe and well. It's been a terrifying time for the people in the affected areas.
 
Isn't it always the way? Dinosaurs, Apartheid, Empire, Colonialism, they come, they go but they never seem to realise that the lessons of history apply to them.
 
Thanks Ian
I have to point out that, after Neil had cut branches into "steps" for Em, he showed her how to climb and find handholds and well as footholds, he stayed with her to make sure she didn't fall. She was 8 then - just about the same age I was when I started climbing things and is much more confident now, but still pretty careful. When scrambling or climbing on rock faces, Tom was always with Neil, who was an enthusiastic climber. Alistair, on the other hand wasn't keen which is why, fairly early on, I stopped climbing because he needed me to stay with him - at the bottom! Years later he told me that he really doesn't like going up on the roof (chimney sweeping) or climbing up the mast of a ship - encouraged by his Dad. He doesn't have a fear of heights (my Dad suffered from vertigo) but he doesn't like the process of getting there.
 
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