Of course you are worried, but try to stay calm. You have had some good advice. Progressive deterioration is usually slow. Cognitive impairment is relative. My father went to the doctor saying he was losing his mind. Doctor asked why did he think that?
Dad: " I can't do logarithms in my head anymore."
Dr: laughs " most people can't either '
Dad was in his fifties. He did start having some difficulties early in his eighties.
Just do the best you can. Nobody can do more.
Thanks
@SlimLizzy
You are right, I often ask myself if I'm going mad or losing it?
then again, I know I have!
Honestly, with mental issues myself, and being there for Mrs L, will gradually wear me down.
And I have asked my family to take some of the weight off me.
However, as always, I'm the only one that really answers her, cos I'm the one Mrs L asks.
And won't ask anyone else at all
The latest questions are from Mrs L 's dreams, and usually have nothing to do with the present, and even after explanations or avoidance, or a yes dear! It is niggling away.
I will admit, that I sometimes need a break from it all. But as usual, how can I ?
Any free time is in the garden or in the kitchen or a small amount of time on here.
Shopping I avoid, but no choice, everyday for fresh stuff or cleaning stuff etc.
A quick walk on the grass behind, while Mrs L has a nap.
We have a saying.....
Yeah, that is my name.....
Don't wear it out!
I'm not built for it all.
I'm sorry to admit it, but I'm being truthful.
I try and it's not depression doing this.
Its my life.