I sincerely hope you find the way to alter the algorithms and share the feeling of wondering how much more time, in my worldview, God will grant: Psalm 39 v 4 Thank you and
@alf_Josiah for the hug BUT, churlish as it may seem, I would far rather an
I than a hug. I am fine with giving hugs but very uncomfortable receiving them. What I am comfortable with are the prayers of those who are openly Christian. Best wishes from non believers or those of other faiths are also gratefully received. I know I'm odd but my list of huggers doesn't extend beyond God and my family, may God forgive me.
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@Annb now you've given me a problem with that hug
I gave you a win
A great big WIN.
For the great attitude.
No, for a ******* attitude
Trumpian even.
Doubt the Donald could ever say he had a better attitude.
Respect .
I get the distain.
I saw with my dad, going from the provider of so much to needing the help of others.
From spreading a net wide over the family, to then find the net only goes so far, hurt him
A wounded animal, recoiling as others rushed in to help, until he settled down to the new status quo.
An unwilling patient indeed, but aren't we all .
We go from doing it all, independent, unaided .
To the bitter realisation, we are after all, human & thus susceptible to a humans frailties, much as we dislike the idea.
Sadly proclamations that go against us do give a moment to clear the decks & help us find out what IS really important in our lives.
Of course we fight & sometimes we hurt & we bleed but we still get up again & again ..until we can't .
Whilst we all know the clock is ticking, few of us know when that countdown ends.
So second by second, week by week, year by year, we steal the glorious moments we have, clearly not in every second but we keep a close watch, because moments happen in seconds, right ?
For us and those nearest & dearest, this IS personal.
But for others in our groups or associates,
It's akin to players on a team.
All different personalities, with the odd squabble I'm sure.
But while initially everyone plays on when a player down,
However once it becomes clear it's more serious than at first thought.
Everyone gathers round in a show of support.
Doing what they can, even when words can seem insufficient , they still try .
And when a players stretchered off, a season ended & sometimes careers ending
The team of course still plays on.
But moments are still spent encouraging healing, platitudes that things will get better, etc etc.
it's the humanness of wanting to offer hope they'll be back playing soon and when we can't, we offer what we can.
A kind word, a prayer or a simple hug.just to let them know......we're here.
Unneeded ? Maybe.
Family & close friends fill that role nicely.
But still offered none the less.
Cos it's how we roll.
Long may it continue.