How did your diabetes check go @Antje77?
Thanks for reminding me, I was going to tell but forgot!
I also remembered to take a picture of my LC zuurkoolstamppot today and forgot to post, so let's start with that. Tasted just as good as yesterday.
Turned out I had the appointment with the endo before the diabetes nurse instead of the other way around, which was a good thing. Endo trumps nurse so it was easy to not get wound up by nurse, I already had the official opinion after all so nurse was just to please them and tickle my feet.
First part of the check was absolutely fantastic! (Endo) Second half was absolutely ridiculous. (Diabetes nurse)
Prequel was good for my mood too: BP was something ridiculous like 147/95 or so, but it always is in hospital so that's fine, I did some home checks a week ago which were much better so I shrugged it off. But weight has gone from 107 kilos to 97 over the past year!

From memory, I started at 118 at diagnosis 8 years ago so that's 20 kilos lost despite high doses of insulin.
First thing endo said was how delighted she was with my numbers (all of them). And then she apologised for having to ask about hypos because of my 29 hba1c. So I told her I'm feeling them at slightly lower numbers now but she was still completely happy with me catching them in the mid/low 3's and didn't advise me to aim for higher numbers.
She didn't even mention BP or ask for my home numbers, she knows I have white coat.
She was prepared to explain why the labs on protein in my urine being slightly raised were no reason to worry so I quickly explained why I didn't think they were anything to worry about. She immediately accepted I understood from my own research, she's one of those doctors who don't have an issue believing patients may actually understand what they read.
We had time left because there was nothing important to discuss so I brought up the remarkable pattern of nighttime lows every night I shared a bed with my neighbour (or Steve, to a lesser extent). Thread here:
https://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/th...ery-time-i-share-a-bed-with-my-friend.203428/
She giggly asked if exercise could be playing a significant part, I said no and shared the conclusions of the forum. She fully agreed that it was likely high oxytocin and low cortisol, and I think it's amazing that a forum of lay people can reach the same conclusion as an endo on such a niche subject.
The diabetes nurse was a new one, and the first one in my over 8 years diabetes career who thought she could tell me what to eat.
She insisted on at least 100-150 grams of carbs a day and repeatedly told me I really was allowed to eat fruit.
I asked her for any studies showing people need that much carbs because I'd like to read them, which was laughed away.
I also told her that of course I'm allowed to eat fruit, I'm too old for a mum to tell me what I'm allowed to eat. But why would I want to if it shoots me up to 13 no matter the timing of my insulin and if a bell pepper has all the good things an apple or an orange has without the high BG.
She kept insisting on fruit without explaining why.
She also warned me of eating less than 100-150 grams carbs because it 'could cause you to burn fats, releasing fatty acids in your bloodstream which could make you feel very ill'. I said that ketosis is not the same as ketoacidosis, which again was met with silence.
I mean, if you want to warn me for DKA, a deadly condition, do so and tell me when I should head to hospital. I know she was wrong, but if she believed she was right she should have warned me and should have given me a set of rules to follow depending on symptoms, and possibly have offered to prescribe me ketone sticks, right?
Which brought us to the ridiculous situation of a HCP being very relieved I drink two high alcohol and high carb beers (30 grams for two) almost every night). I suppose she now believes this is the thing saving me from DKA.

I felt a bit sorry for her worries so I told her I had a portion of chips and a carby snack in the swimming pool during the Christmas holidays.
This also seemed to ease her worries. Telling her my last meal was zuurkoolstamppot, sauerkraut and cauliflower with fatty proteins, followed by chicory leaves with hummus in bed seemed to make her worry more.
So I suppose I'm the only person with a HCP happier to have me drink too much and eat deep fried snacks than a plate full of veggies.
Can't make it up, can you!
Almost perfect numbers and a happy diabetic were staring her right in the face, and instead of wanting to learn she wanted to tell me I was doing it wrong.
Why?
So a very good thing I had the endo first. She's the boss and she's happy with everything I do, it was easy to let whatever the nurse said slide off.
The funny thing is that I called my best friend after. She doesn't even have diabetes but she was way more shocked and indignant than I was by everything she said, and even proposed I send my endo a letter to tell her to educate her diabetes nurses!