@ Molly56, Hello I have just read you very simple reply, and this is the totally right thing to do.
Tell the doctor about what you have to tell him about him in doors, or write down the points that need to be highlighted, just what is important.
Then sit and tell the gp, how you are feeling and ask for help, even something for the stress you are going through, are you having high blood pressure? thumping noise in the ears, headaches,cannot sleep properly? Are you tired all the time? Tears? all signs of stress and anxiety.
Galloping up rapidly is the season of the guy in the red suit, cannot be bothered with it, dreading it?
Molly step back and rest, you need to stop worrying about the situation and wanting to help is one thing, but being ignored is stressful to your well being, still here for you Molly, ttfn from Karen.