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Hi molly56,i'm just over chelsea bridge,.........Getting used to thinking about number one first.....just booked a 'me day out' to RHS Chelsea Flower Show for next year....on my own.......think this is how it is going to be from now on...
....anyone else want to come too......
I'll get the bus ready,Seriously thinking about it!!
You need support and your GPs/Nurses etc should be doing that.
Do you consider that you are a Carer for your wife or that she is a Carer for you? If either of you are dependent upon the other person to assist you then you are effectively needing help. The GPs have to identify persons Carers... You may consider that you both help each other out because you are family... But if either of you are dependent upon the other person then you must tell your Gp. Your GP should also have leaflets regarding carers in the Practice. Some Practices like ours also have noticeboards with a lot of info on.
There are voluntary organisations to assist persons with health concerns.. Especially with Ms/dementia.
It sounds as if you are really struggling.
Have you tried any of the above?
yes every time we get to see Dr its a different one and they ask the same question WHAT wrong WITH YOU and lets see what we can do its taken me over 10 months to get a appointment with the newoligest about my MS as my left leg is num all the time
@donnellysdogs @scotts6633 ....these seem to be on wrong thread...will ask @Administrator if they can move them to the correct place .....original thread in greetings and introductions started by @scotts6633 ...not a problem being here but more useful to put in correct place ...hope that is ok...
@donnellysdogs I'm ok....did you get my email yesterday....will catch up there....also you are very welcome to come to Chelsea with me....Ok with me, didn't know there another thread! Also I am known as Derailer Donnelly!! Lol
Hope you are ok??
@Clivethedrive ...that's good....will know where to come when my feet get weary and I am all flowered out......can wave across the water to Battersea Park from the flower show...have you ever been to the flower show yourself...was also considering a day trip to the Hampton Court Flower Show...have been to both in the past and enjoyed them each for different reasons......looking forward to it already....Hi molly56,i'm just over chelsea bridge,.........
@donnellysdogs I'm ok....did you get my email yesterday....will catch up there....also you are very welcome to come to Chelsea with me....
Getting used to thinking about number one first.....just booked a 'me day out' to RHS Chelsea Flower Show for next year....on my own.......think this is how it is going to be from now on...
....anyone else want to come too......[/QUOTE
I would love to go, when and how much. I have never been before and it would a won
Ok with me, didn't know there another thread! Also I am known as Derailer Donnelly!! Lol
Hope you are ok??
@azure ......@donnellysdogs @scotts6633 ....these seem to be on wrong thread...will ask @Administrator if they can move them to the correct place .....original thread in greetings and introductions started by @scotts6633 ...not a problem being here but more useful to put in correct place ...hope that is ok...
Should I be bothered by the fact that he has not tested bs levels for the last two days....despite still injecting his insulin and driving...am wondering what readings he will be showing the diabetic nurse on Monday or whether he will just complete his book with false readings as he has done in the past....whatever I say (or don't say) won't make a blind bit of difference so why waste my breath......
Oh Lord - I'm not alone in feeling like this - sorry but - I felt so lonely thinking it's just me. I hope you find inspiration soon, hugs, karen in wet manchester xx.....the title says it all.....just how I am feeling at the moment.....
@WythenshaweBi ...am sure we are not the only ones that feel like this...hope you too find some inspiration ....am happy to talk anytime if it helps ...hope the sun is shining for you todayOh Lord - I'm not alone in feeling like this - sorry but - I felt so lonely thinking it's just me. I hope you find inspiration soon, hugs, karen in wet manchester xx
Hello Molly 56, well here we are ,,,how are you doing this cold november sunday morning???
I have been reading your posts and replies from many of our friends on here, and my last posts were #27 on 2/11/15 and #30 on 2/11/15 and your reply on #30 on 3/11/15.
Molly it is now 29/11/15 and you are still stressing out on that male who is not doing anything correctly,,
it is now time to take stock of were things are at,,,,please go back and read the posts and replies,,I think you will find some repeating comments from all of us.
On page 1 of this post @ Poshtotty made a valid point in her comment, I have pointed out somethings to you.
Q1), what has happened about his driving?
a, have you informed the police and had him stopped, breath tested, eye tested?
b, has the gp shopped him to the dvla?
Q2), has he started being better behaved with regard to his bs testing and taking the medication and insulin correctly?
a, does he is stay in bed?
b, have you put him a bedroom on his own, so that you don't have to sleep next to him, and if he gets sick during the night, he can sort it out or ring 999.
Q3), Do I sound like a total ratbag?, who is hard hearted and cannot see why your get yourself into a right state, because he is pressing his self destruct buttons ?
Q4), what support do you want us to give to you? we read you posts, we reply to those posts, there are not many things left for us to do,,,, the problem lies with him in doors,,,, he is behaving extremely selfish and does not care how it affects you,,,,,,,so did you practise tough love?
Q5), has he arranged his funeral, made a will, do his sons know exactly what is going on with their father???? bet they don't know it all,,,,,,
Q6), are you going to away for crimble, and let him do his own thing?? ttfn from Karen.
Wow. Glad things have progressed for you @Molly56 .
It sounds like you finally have put the function back into disfunctional..