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- Type of diabetes
- Treatment type
- Tablets (oral)
- Dislikes
- Plain fish, tripe, porridge, pasta, boiled rice,
I feel a bit of a fraud because its not me who is diabetic but my husband. However I badly need guidance so I hope you'll forgive an interloper as he won't ask for help himself.
He has been absolutely horrible since diagnosis a fortnight ago, and frankly I feel more like telling him to go to *ell on a handcart than trying to make him tasty low carb meals because he treats every meal I now make with suspicion and demands potatoes with everything, will not eat rice and snaps my head off whenever I try to suggest something healthy, I'm public enemy number one. Having read your comments from newly diagnosed members I now feel able to better understand how he's feeling, but I get very annoyed at his present attitude of simply eating everything he can lay his hands on. I can go to the fridge to make a meal and find he's eaten the ingredients, he goes out to our local pie shop (lovely pies!) and buy several and then eat them before coming home (I've seen the receipt - he's make a lousy criminal). Every meal is smothered in mayo or brown sauce. He's in complete denial and furious about it.
He is very overweight, I don't know by how much as our scales only go up to 20 stones, and is under the influence of a young lady who sells him 'shakes' to control this. The thing is, these shakes are meant to be meal replacements and he takes them as extras because they're 'slimming', eating one with his usual breakfast of 2 sl toast and marm, and another at bedtime.
Do I leave him to stew for a week or two and then start back on the diet bandwagon? I could go on, and probably will do in future ..... but some advice would be helpful. Especially - I'd like to know what to ask the NHS dietician we are due to see next week ...... she's given us leaflets on HIGH carbs. so I foresee a conflict here.
Oh and I am coeliac myself, so already on a restricted carb diet.
This is quite a rant, and I apologise - Admin please delete this thread and cancel my membership if I'm intruding.
He has been absolutely horrible since diagnosis a fortnight ago, and frankly I feel more like telling him to go to *ell on a handcart than trying to make him tasty low carb meals because he treats every meal I now make with suspicion and demands potatoes with everything, will not eat rice and snaps my head off whenever I try to suggest something healthy, I'm public enemy number one. Having read your comments from newly diagnosed members I now feel able to better understand how he's feeling, but I get very annoyed at his present attitude of simply eating everything he can lay his hands on. I can go to the fridge to make a meal and find he's eaten the ingredients, he goes out to our local pie shop (lovely pies!) and buy several and then eat them before coming home (I've seen the receipt - he's make a lousy criminal). Every meal is smothered in mayo or brown sauce. He's in complete denial and furious about it.
He is very overweight, I don't know by how much as our scales only go up to 20 stones, and is under the influence of a young lady who sells him 'shakes' to control this. The thing is, these shakes are meant to be meal replacements and he takes them as extras because they're 'slimming', eating one with his usual breakfast of 2 sl toast and marm, and another at bedtime.
Do I leave him to stew for a week or two and then start back on the diet bandwagon? I could go on, and probably will do in future ..... but some advice would be helpful. Especially - I'd like to know what to ask the NHS dietician we are due to see next week ...... she's given us leaflets on HIGH carbs. so I foresee a conflict here.
Oh and I am coeliac myself, so already on a restricted carb diet.
This is quite a rant, and I apologise - Admin please delete this thread and cancel my membership if I'm intruding.