I would let it go over your head, you are the one who has to manage your Type2.
For the first four months I tested and gradually got to the point where I knew roughly what I could and couldn't eat. The worst part for me was eating the meal that had good results again, only to find that the numbers were marginally higher and it taught me that some days due to exercise, illness, timing etc.... the readings will be different. My GP was happy for me to test and made test strips available.
We have to manage this chronic condition 24/7 with little input from the medics so why shouldn't we do what we feel is right for us? I have never tested in front of non diabetics unless they were genuinely interested.
It is eleven years on for me and I only test occasionally now but I would recommend testing for any new Type2. I rarely order test strips on my prescription now as I do not need them all the time. I will test if I am ill, taking steroid therapy for an unrelated autoimmune condition or as a one off, perhaps a full day once a month, to see what is going on.