Hi,you may not see this,your boyfriend may feel like he doesn't want to read this,but just tell him,from a stranger,please take the time to just read what I am going to write.
I am a type 1 diabetic and am now 25 years old.i have had it since I was 6 years old,and believe me since the age of about 12,I have done what I wanted.i thought I was in control,I had the same motto,I won't let it win,I won't let diabetes control my life.The bottom line of it is,it doesn't have to,and you can still do everything you want to do,the moment you neglect it and have the attitude I won't let it win,your then letting it win because of the complications that will come by not taking control of it and doing what you should be doing.
As I said I am 25 years old and from the uk,I chose to do what I wanted,ate what I wanted,skipped injections,never tested my blood glucose level,and when I say never I mean,never. Since living my life like this,it may sound dramatic and it may sound a bit in depth,but this is the truth,this is what it can do to you. I have suffered a thing called DKA 3 times from the age of 14 to 22. DKA to put it bluntly is when your body starts to release ketones which then makes your blood acidic and starts to slowly shut down. As you can see I didn't learn from the first time nor the second time,but the third time was the last time I was going to make myself suffer and my family,and the people I loved and cared about,and the last time I was going to let DIABETES CONTROL MY LIFE!
When you suffer DKA the third time,I started to throw up solid blood clots,I drifted In and out of consciousness,I had the most intense pain in my lower back to the point where no matter how I laid if I was conscious I was not comfortable,I needed gas and air to take the edge off of it. To then be rushed to hospital in an ambulance,and be connected to IV drips,have a needle put into my main artery through my wrist. After an hour or two,yes I felt a lot better,so being the stubborn not letting diabetes control my life type character,I asked my mum to get me the discharge form,I was going home. My mum returned and threw a bit of paper at me,crying and walked away. It was the paramedics hand over sheet, written in the bottom was the paramedics handwriting with the words "I believe if we was 5 minutes later in getting the patient to the hospital, he would have been deceased." DECEASED meaning DEAD,no life,no second chance,no beating diabetes and me winning,it meant I was allowing the diabetes to win by not looking after myself.
I have had to have laser eye surgery,where they fire lasers to the backs of your eyes,I have had over 2500 laser shots in both eyes to stop me from going blind. And believe me your awake while they do it,and the pain, well it isn't the nicest feeling in the world.
My mum is a type 1 diabetic has been since she was 18 months old,she is now 50. Right now as I type this she is sitting in a hospital In Whitechapel London,and has just had her right leg amputated,she is blind in one eye,she has kidney failure of both kidneys and also has heart disease. All of these problems have stemmed from poor control of her type 1 diabetes. We don't know how much longer and it hurts to write this,but we don't know how much longer my mum has with us because of all the complications.
I could go on for pages and pages,and go into great detail about loads of things. I have turned my life around and I feel better,I control my diabetes and yet I am still able to do what I want with my life,I live my life everyday now more normal then most people do without diabetes.
Please if you would like to contact me,I am more then willing to talk to you or your boyfriend,more so him, because and I don't mean any disrespect from it, but I have type 1 diabetes, I know his struggle and I can relate a whole lot more. But please don't hesitate to contact me, if I can stop just one person from ruining their whole life by talking to them, then please let me do so, I don't want diabetes to cut short someone else's life, I don't want diabetes to win against another person.
Anyone reading this, any questions, any queries any help I can give to change yours, a member of your family's, a friends, a child's, a man or a woman's life, then please PM me.