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Hi I'm jo type 2. With my first child 12 years ago I got gestation diabeties then with all three of my pregnancies and got diagnosed after my last baby was born. I struggle with food and needing help with food that fill me up. I'm trying to lose weight but find it hard and this gets me down.
 
Hey.
Best idea yet to join.

What do you normally eat. You may be surprised. I certainly was.

The hunger pangs pass quickly to once your eating better.
I'm a newbie myself and changing my diet has made an amazing difference. It needs some effort but it's worth it. .
 
Hi I'm jo type 2. With my first child 12 years ago I got gestation diabeties then with all three of my pregnancies and got diagnosed after my last baby was born. I struggle with food and needing help with food that fill me up. I'm trying to lose weight but find it hard and this gets me down.

A warm welcome :) Please check out dietdoctor.com and LCHF. @daisy1 will post her eminent advice in this thread too.
 
Hi Jo and welcome. You’ll find that loads of type 2s here have been successful in getting our blood sugars back to normal by reducing our carb intake and increasing healthy fats. The reduction in carbs help blood sugars as carbs turn to sugar once digested, the fats make you feel full without affecting blood sugars and also, hard to believe I know, but they don’t make you fat. I was diagnosed 18 months ago and have maintained a non diabetic HbA1c for over a year now and have easily lost a shed load of weight. Have a read of the info already mentioned by @briped (https://www.dietdoctor.com/how-low-carb-is-low-carb) and daisy1’s post which will arrive soon in this thread for you or you can find it in my signature.
 
Hi, have you done much reading around the site as a whole? Most of us here eat low carb and increase fats to give energy. It sounds counter intuitive at first as it goes against the messages we’ve all been given for the last 40yrs. But it works and all our measures improve glucose weight cholesterol by etc etc.

You’ll need a glucose meter ideally to monitor which foods work with and which against your body. Testing before eating and 2 hours after will guide you. Typically you’ll need to avoid or reduce bread, rice, pasta, potatoes, cereals and grains as well as actual sugar along with any other high carb foods. Lots of (mostly) above ground veg gives you some carbs. The rest of your energy will come from fats. They won’t make you fat. Stop eating low fat rubbish that is often full of sugars or chemicals. Add non seed oils eg olive, avocado, coconut, real butter and cream, cheeses and eggs. Real meats and fish.

Are you on meds? If so as you change your diet they may need adjusting to avoid them taking you too low as your own levels drop.

Dietdoctor.com has some great explanations of how and why it works and recipes too.
 
Hi, have you done much reading around the site as a whole? Most of us here eat low carb and increase fats to give energy. It sounds counter intuitive at first as it goes against the messages we’ve all been given for the last 40yrs. But it works and all our measures improve glucose weight cholesterol by etc etc.

You’ll need a glucose meter ideally to monitor which foods work with and which against your body. Testing before eating and 2 hours after will guide you. Typically you’ll need to avoid or reduce bread, rice, pasta, potatoes, cereals and grains as well as actual sugar along with any other high carb foods. Lots of (mostly) above ground veg gives you some carbs. The rest of your energy will come from fats. They won’t make you fat. Stop eating low fat rubbish that is often full of sugars or chemicals. Add non seed oils eg olive, avocado, coconut, real butter and cream, cheeses and eggs. Real meats and fish.

Are you on meds? If so as you change your diet they may need adjusting to avoid them taking you too low as your own levels drop.

Dietdoctor.com has some great explanations of how and why it works and recipes too.
Has thanks for your reply. I've had little look about the site. I have a meter which I've started to test as I'm seeing a new dietician. I'm going on a diabetic course aswell in a couple of weeks. I'm on victosa metfirmin and two weeks ago started on empagliflozin which they says should help me lose weight and lower my sugars. I've been told about losing weight I'm very active always walking about I've moved cities in the last month as I blamed eating **** on being depressed where I lived but I'm happier now and have no excuse to eat badly. Im happy to eat lots of veg and salads that I love I just feel still hungry all the time.
 
Im happy to eat lots of veg and salads that I love I just feel still hungry all the time.

So would I and most other people I know. It's probably and very likely because you don't get enough fat with your veggies. I remember eating 300g of raw spinach in my low fat days. 300 gs is a HUGE portion, but I was still hungry after eating all that. We're not chimps. Veggies alone never satiated me, but I was led to believe that my sin was gluttony ;)
 
Has thanks for your reply. I've had little look about the site. I have a meter which I've started to test as I'm seeing a new dietician. I'm going on a diabetic course aswell in a couple of weeks. I'm on victosa metfirmin and two weeks ago started on empagliflozin which they says should help me lose weight and lower my sugars. I've been told about losing weight I'm very active always walking about I've moved cities in the last month as I blamed eating **** on being depressed where I lived but I'm happier now and have no excuse to eat badly. Im happy to eat lots of veg and salads that I love I just feel still hungry all the time.
Many official diabetes courses will advise whole grains and slow release low gi foods. Whilst these are an improvement on the white versions they are still high carb and will produce a rise in glucose. Just more slowly and not as high but for longer. The rise in bgl for these may come after the 2 hrs so test again at 3 or even 4 hrs with these so you don’t get a false sense of security thinking they are ok when they aren’t. A few lucky diabetics can eat a little of some without too much issue, but not many. By the time you get there you may have views on their appropriateness that doesn’t much agree with their use - many in here do.

Start a log of what you eat and what it does to your bloods. It will be invaluable in working out which foods are your friends.

Walking is excellent, especially after meals. Hope you enjoy exploring your new home town.
 
Hi I'm jo type 2. With my first child 12 years ago I got gestation diabeties then with all three of my pregnancies and got diagnosed after my last baby was born. I struggle with food and needing help with food that fill me up. I'm trying to lose weight but find it hard and this gets me down.

Okay, this is a little surreal. Hi Jo! (Said Jo. ;) )
Well, you've come to the right place, that's for certain. I've seen several dieticians over the years and had a lot of diabetes/diet advice, and while I can't say it got me nowhere, the place it did get me was into morbid obesity and T2. So best thing to do is read a lot, like this site right here, or over at dietdoctor.com, or the books by Dr. Jason Fung. (He's brilliant!).

Everything we think we know about diet is pretty much wrong. And while it feels rather like going against instinct, you really want to up the fats some. I'll try to keep this relatively simple as a T2 diagnosis is enough to take in as it is, but the one thing you need to take away from all this is the following: You'll be okay! Got that? Good! The rest is all extra.

It's a good thing you've already got a meter, as you're going to need it. Test before eating and two hours after the first bite. If your sugars went up more than 2.0 mmol/l, the meal was too carby. Carby? Yeah, practically all carbs turn to glucose once ingested, so you want to avoid those. Carbs are just one of three macronutrients, the other two being protein and fat. And if you lower one, you want to up the other two. Not just because, especially fat, will make you feel full and will take care of hunger-pangs. It also, and that's a huge perk, fat slows down the uptake of any carbs you do eat, without having any impact on your bloodsugars itself. While proteine will up your sugars a little, and carbs will do it a LOT, fats just keep things on an even keel. And you do need fats and protein to get all your minerals, vitamins, what have you. So while salads are fine, you'll also need to add fats and protein to make it a meal that won't make you feel hungry 2 minutes after finishing.

So, things that aren't good for you, because you have trouble processing them back out: Bread, rice, potatoes, cereals, pasta and fruit, save for a few berries, avocado and maybe some cherry tomatoes. That leaves a lot of goodness though: Meat, fish, eggs, butter, cheese, avocado, berries, double cream, full fat greek yoghurt, nuts, olives, extra dark chocolate, leafy greens and above-ground veggies. Meals could look like this: Full fat greek yoghurt with a few berries, some walnuts and coconut. Two or three eggs with cheese, bacon, cherry tomatoes, mushroom, and/or sausages. (VERY filling, yay!). Salad with a can of tuna or salmon, capers, olives, avocado and mayo. Or a goat's cheese salad with a nice vinaigrette, cherry-tomatoes.... Dinner could be meat or fish with a load of veggies, and I've found cauliflower rice is a great substitute for actual rice, spuds or pasta. (It's very versatile! i like mine with whatever herbs I feel like, bacon and more cheese. ;) ). For snacks, Lindt's 85% chocolate (a couple of squares, not the whole thing, but as it's very strong you wouldn't want to eat it in one go anyway), pork scratchings, olives, cheese... It'all good stuff. But don't let me tell you: let your meter. ;)

Good luck!
Jo (The Dutch one)
 
@Jojoswinsells

Hello Jojo and welcome to the Forum :) Here is the Basic Information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you like and someone will be able to help.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 235,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.

There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:
  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes.

Over 145,000 people have taken part in the Low Carb Program - a 10 week structured education course that is helping people lose weight and reduce medication dependency by explaining the science behind carbs, insulin and GI.

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:
  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic.

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
Take part in Diabetes.co.uk digital education programs and improve your understanding. Most of these are free.

  • Low Carb Program - it's made front-page news of the New Scientist and The Times. Developed with 20,000 people with type 2 diabetes; 96% of people who take part recommend it... find out why

  • Hypo Program - improve your understanding of hypos. There's a version for people with diabetes, parents/guardians of children with type 1, children with type 1 diabetes, teachers and HCPs.
 
Okay, this is a little surreal. Hi Jo! (Said Jo. ;) )
Well, you've come to the right place, that's for certain. I've seen several dieticians over the years and had a lot of diabetes/diet advice, and while I can't say it got me nowhere, the place it did get me was into morbid obesity and T2. So best thing to do is read a lot, like this site right here, or over at dietdoctor.com, or the books by Dr. Jason Fung. (He's brilliant!).

Everything we think we know about diet is pretty much wrong. And while it feels rather like going against instinct, you really want to up the fats some. I'll try to keep this relatively simple as a T2 diagnosis is enough to take in as it is, but the one thing you need to take away from all this is the following: You'll be okay! Got that? Good! The rest is all extra.

It's a good thing you've already got a meter, as you're going to need it. Test before eating and two hours after the first bite. If your sugars went up more than 2.0 mmol/l, the meal was too carby. Carby? Yeah, practically all carbs turn to glucose once ingested, so you want to avoid those. Carbs are just one of three macronutrients, the other two being protein and fat. And if you lower one, you want to up the other two. Not just because, especially fat, will make you feel full and will take care of hunger-pangs. It also, and that's a huge perk, fat slows down the uptake of any carbs you do eat, without having any impact on your bloodsugars itself. While proteine will up your sugars a little, and carbs will do it a LOT, fats just keep things on an even keel. And you do need fats and protein to get all your minerals, vitamins, what have you. So while salads are fine, you'll also need to add fats and protein to make it a meal that won't make you feel hungry 2 minutes after finishing.

So, things that aren't good for you, because you have trouble processing them back out: Bread, rice, potatoes, cereals, pasta and fruit, save for a few berries, avocado and maybe some cherry tomatoes. That leaves a lot of goodness though: Meat, fish, eggs, butter, cheese, avocado, berries, double cream, full fat greek yoghurt, nuts, olives, extra dark chocolate, leafy greens and above-ground veggies. Meals could look like this: Full fat greek yoghurt with a few berries, some walnuts and coconut. Two or three eggs with cheese, bacon, cherry tomatoes, mushroom, and/or sausages. (VERY filling, yay!). Salad with a can of tuna or salmon, capers, olives, avocado and mayo. Or a goat's cheese salad with a nice vinaigrette, cherry-tomatoes.... Dinner could be meat or fish with a load of veggies, and I've found cauliflower rice is a great substitute for actual rice, spuds or pasta. (It's very versatile! i like mine with whatever herbs I feel like, bacon and more cheese. ;) ). For snacks, Lindt's 85% chocolate (a couple of squares, not the whole thing, but as it's very strong you wouldn't want to eat it in one go anyway), pork scratchings, olives, cheese... It'all good stuff. But don't let me tell you: let your meter. ;)

Good luck!
Jo (The Dutch one)
Thanks jo that's some great ideas. You know you say with meats eating to fill me how much would you say of meat like one chicken breast obviously I know without fat on it? I do love Tuna but is that with the brine not oil? What bout crisp readings like ryvita would they be OK. I usually for bfast like pasties which I know is a no no and cooked breakfast odd times. Me and my hubby are spending more time together and where we live our road has like 30 takeouts all kinds of food and something we like to do is go lunch together that's where we usually eat rubbish he's that type thin and eat what he wants I've tested his sugar when he's eaten loads chocakte abd has like a reading of 4. I've woken up and sometimes get a reading of 10! I'm gonna start a 1/2 hour walk after dropped kids in morning and do this few times a week I alreadinh walk loads too. I only got a new meter machine Friday so Il start testing before and after foods. I need to lose over 4 stone I worry so much for my health my kids are young me and hubby are all they got so I need to sort myself out stop making excuses. Thanks for replying I really appreciate it x
 
Hey.
Best idea yet to join.

What do you normally eat. You may be surprised. I certainly was.

The hunger pangs pass quickly to once your eating better.
I'm a newbie myself and changing my diet has made an amazing difference. It needs some effort but it's worth it. .
Hi thanks for reply I eat quite healthy at times but then feel hungry so will eat things I shouldn't. I like pasties and cook breakfasts I love crisps I've controlled myself on chocolate. Bread I eat in sandwiches and toast or to fill me up in salads. Love casseroles, curries. I basically like stodgy food that fills me up but I know is no good for me.
 
Your packing away loads of carbs. Reccomended ideas on carbs suggest less than a hundred a day.
Myself, I am just over 50 now since Friday morning. Under 100 for the last 5 days and aiming for less.
The bread in toast and sarnies, maybe 'just'
6 slices. If its white bread, that may well be chasing 180 grammes of carbs without anything else.
I know from mini experiments that even 1 slice of white bread will spike me. But I can have 20g of crisps in front of the telly as a treat with little effect.
 
You need to stave off the hunger pangs by eating enough fat to feel fuller for longer, it stops the circle of eating carbs then feeling hungry so eating more carbs. It’s difficult to get your head around to begin with I know, been there and done that. Next time you feel hungry, try eating some cheese, some pork scratchings or a few strawberries and double cream.
 
You can have cooked breakfast. (Eggs, bacon, sausage - watch the breadcrumbs etc in these). You can have fat on meat. If you like tuna in oil that’s good (depending on which oil). Fat is good. It will fill you up.

Ryvita is a no I’m afraid. grains are what you need to avoid. So bread isn’t good either. You can have a little very dark chocolate ok. I’d avoid milk chocolate though.

Take a look at diet doctor recipes or ditchthecarbs.com for ideas.
 
I’ve just seen on another post the empagliflozin, you are taking may not go well with a keto (very low carb) diet so just adding a comment here in case others on it read the thread later and aren’t aware as a fair few of here weren’t. I guess checking with hcp is in order to either not do keto, change meds or be monitored more closely whilst aware of the pitfalls.
 
I’ve just seen on another post the empagliflozin, you are taking may not go well with a keto (very low carb) diet so just adding a comment here in case others on it read the thread later and aren’t aware as a fair few of here weren’t. I guess checking with hcp is in order to either not do keto, change meds or be monitored more closely whilst aware of the pitfalls.
Thankyou yes I did see I didn't that either so thanks for letting me know
 
Empagliflozin is in the family of drugs known as SGLT2-INHIBITORS. Here is a video from Virta, just one and a half minutes long on why a very low carb/keto diet is contraindicated with this class of drugs.

 
Thanks jo that's some great ideas. You know you say with meats eating to fill me how much would you say of meat like one chicken breast obviously I know without fat on it? I do love Tuna but is that with the brine not oil? What bout crisp readings like ryvita would they be OK. I usually for bfast like pasties which I know is a no no and cooked breakfast odd times. Me and my hubby are spending more time together and where we live our road has like 30 takeouts all kinds of food and something we like to do is go lunch together that's where we usually eat rubbish he's that type thin and eat what he wants I've tested his sugar when he's eaten loads chocakte abd has like a reading of 4. I've woken up and sometimes get a reading of 10! I'm gonna start a 1/2 hour walk after dropped kids in morning and do this few times a week I alreadinh walk loads too. I only got a new meter machine Friday so Il start testing before and after foods. I need to lose over 4 stone I worry so much for my health my kids are young me and hubby are all they got so I need to sort myself out stop making excuses. Thanks for replying I really appreciate it x
I'm going to keep this kindof short because with your medication I am basically at a loss. I said it before; fats are good. Have as much proper meat as you like (no breading!). Chicken thigh(s) with the skin & fat on for instance, rather than a single slim breast, as fat truly is a T2's friend. Tuna with oil, not brine. Eat until you feel satiated. Huge amounts of carbs aren't good for you, as they equal sugar in your bloodstream. So pasties, bread, potatoes, rice, pasta, all that stuff makes your bloodsugars shoot up. Eating out, well, I can have a whopper, I just order it without the bread... But again, with your medication, going as low carb as I am (and I'm at 20 grams of carbs a day or less) can be very dangerous. I didn't realise what you were on before, so basically, my advice is useless and possibly risky, because you can't have those meds and a low carb/high fat diet, as I now understand it, at the same time. This is what works for me, but I'm not on anything, I ditched the meds (in agreement with my doc) a couple of months after diagnosis. So, I'm thinking the others here are better equipped to help you as I completely missed your medication when giving advice, and they caught it, thankfully. I'm so sorry I botched this.

Good luck!
Jo
 
I'm going to keep this kindof short because with your medication I am basically at a loss. I said it before; fats are good. Have as much proper meat as you like (no breading!). Chicken thigh(s) with the skin & fat on for instance, rather than a single slim breast, as fat truly is a T2's friend. Tuna with oil, not brine. Eat until you feel satiated. Huge amounts of carbs aren't good for you, as they equal sugar in your bloodstream. So pasties, bread, potatoes, rice, pasta, all that stuff makes your bloodsugars shoot up. Eating out, well, I can have a whopper, I just order it without the bread... But again, with your medication, going as low carb as I am (and I'm at 20 grams of carbs a day or less) can be very dangerous. I didn't realise what you were on before, so basically, my advice is useless and possibly risky, because you can't have those meds and a low carb/high fat diet, as I now understand it, at the same time. This is what works for me, but I'm not on anything, I ditched the meds (in agreement with my doc) a couple of months after diagnosis. So, I'm thinking the others here are better equipped to help you as I completely missed your medication when giving advice, and they caught it, thankfully. I'm so sorry I botched this.

Good luck!
Jo
No it's ok I wasn't even told by my nurses about the carbs so it's ok please don't feel bad jo. I don't like thighs I much prefer chicken breasts I'm thinking of buying a load without skin and maybe putting herbs on to have with breakfast. I have Carmed down on all the carb stuff as I know I was having too much but it was just that I needed to feel fuller. I have a fresh fruit shop inky round the corner so I have no excuses to get it. I've been eating an apple and orange after dinner just to sometimes get some sweet taste or low fat Greek yogurt with hint cocunut anything rather then the cakes that call out my name I have two fresh bakeries just round the corner and it's awful with the tempting smells but it's my health and I can see alot if people are controlling their sugars really well and I want to do it too.
 
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