on the plus side he's gained just over a stone.
His work is also physical when he's not driving. He's 62.
He's just said to me he's done around 4,000 calories worth of work - exercise - today so what can he eat to put back the calories
Hi Resurgam
I do a chocolate roulade no flour no fat
a cereal type oat based breakfast with milk, normally a sandwich
I think he's taken his eye off the ball a bit, eating bits and pieces from the bakers when he's on the road etc
Alexandra, he's difficult. We have chickens so he's not big on eating it especially cold and deffo not a leg. His go to since Xpert has been beans on toast or supermarket sandwich if he's out. Likewise mayonnaise makes him heave (raw eggs) I eat it so it's always in the fridge, if it wasn't for the allergy thing I'd do raw egg choc mousse etc. I cook loads of Vegs but he never puts much on his plate, I fill up on veg then I don't need/want anything else. He said he's got a sweet tooth, I said, well my teeth are the same as yours....he had antibiotics and steroids in Feb so possibly that's contributed to the high reading. I don't buy anything naughty e.g meringue nests but they're always in the cupboard, likewise ice cream in the freezer (which I don't eat cos it hurts my teeth)!
I hope the glucophage works without making him ill!
Thank you
hi
I have posted on here before but now we have a fresh set of challenges. My OH t2 was controlling his diabetes with diet and got down from somewhere near 150 to 55 with diet including doing the Expert course. He has just been to the surgery for his 3 month check and his latest reading is 111. Now he has had the flu, cough syrups etc and struggled to eat for about 3 week, we have also had Christmas and New Year. I think he's taken his eye off the ball a bit, eating bits and pieces from the bakers when he's on the road etc, on the plus side he's gained just over a stone. His legs are still like sticks however. They have prescribed SR glucophage 1 to be taken at night. Sadly he cannot eat eggs as a meal as he is allergic to them and they make him sick so he has a cereal type oat based breakfast with milk, normally a sandwich and a yoghurt for lunch then it's over to me for an evening meal which must include a dessert. I'm looking for high cal low carb meals if there is such a thing! (I on the other hand need to lose a bit!). Last night he was extremely depressed and said he'd have a carrot for pudding! Some of my ideas include home made flour less sponge with sugar free custard and a bit of fruit (like trifle) or quark with a bit of grated chocolate but it doesn't do it for him really. So is this a blip, is he just settling down? Is there a chart anywhere which tells you how many grammes of carb you should have in a day? He has changed to brown rice and wholewheat pasta and doesn't eat so much of it, I'm not sure where we're going wrong. His work is also physical when he's not driving. He's 62. Tia
Well that would be lovely! The chance of seeing him on a forum is zero, he's not even that good with a mobile phone!Maybe you could go on a world cruise for 6 months and leave him to sort himself out? Then we might even have the pleasure of meeting him here! Seriously, could you lavish a bit more loving care on yourself, and less on trying to rescue him?
That sounds lush, thank you@myracat
This side dish recipe is so good. If he likes cauliflower and cheese, he'll really enjoy this (use the full fat version of sour cream and cream instead of milk). I've also made it with 1/2 broc 1/2 cauli. I also leave the cauli fairly chunky. Note: it's an American recipe so the carbs are less than what's indicated (subtract the fibre from the carbs to give you the net carbs).
He probably won't even miss potatoes with this dish!
http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/recipe-loaded-cauliflower-bake/
Thanks for that, just went to Lidl, no rolls and avocados were rock hard, however we found a chicken dish in Lidl quite low carb with cheese and it was delicious. I'm worried about what it's all going to cost though, spelt, lentils, all the things I normally fill him up with are too highcounting the number of grams of carbs eaten in a day is essential to get HbA1c down for a type 2 diabetic.. , all kinds of meat are fine to eat, avoacado, and nuts too and olives,.... many kinds of cheese also contain very little levels of carb.. so does LIDLs protein rolls that are a much better choice than bread in general
what to avoid , grain, wheat, bread almost all kinds cakes , potatoes and corn, sugar, juice, fruit
the better choice is to eat most vegs grown over ground like tomatoes, cucumber, spinach, cale,cauliflower, broccolli, leak and so on.. berries
all carbs count in the counting... and white bread is actually just as bad as sugar...
here is some links to low carb foods and treats... to make
https://draxe.com/low-carb-desserts/
https://www.lowcarblab.com/low-carb-snack-ideas-recipes-sweet-salty/
https://www.delish.com/cooking/recipe-ideas/g3593/low-carb-recipes/
Given that you still think he needs to GAIN weight, why not nuts first? I do think though that it would be a good idea to get back to after-meal testing, to evaluate how various foods and quantities are affecting him. I and many / most Forumites find that eating more fat does satisfy. Perhaps if he could bring himself to eat a breakfast high in protein and fat instead of carbs, he might feel less desperate for sandwiches at lunch-time. Also, nuts and bits of cheese need no preparation and can easily be carried for emergency snacking.Tonight was a success though, chicken and loads of veg plus strawberries and cream and he's full! Although he had some nuts first
That's the often the trouble with avocados. I buy them hard and put them in a bowl on top of the microwave (the warmest place in my kitchen, as that's how I do almost all my cooking). I try to have some ripe and some coming along all the time. If I cut into a hard avocado by mistake, I have found that all is not lost. I put the halves into a closed dish and microwave very briefly. Be careful though as the part of the avocado just under the skin gets very hot when microwaved. In a way, that's typical of diabetic-friendly cookery. That is, preparation and fore-sight is key. I find this the hardest aspect. I would like to be able sometimes to eat quickly and spontaneously, but making a whole meal out of cheese and nuts (yes, I have been known to do this!) is not ideal.avocados were rock hard
Looks interesting, can you see the egg or does it disappear?Oh as @AdamJames says the Diet Dr low carb coconut porridge makes a good warm filling start to the day. I have it every morning with strawberries and cream
https://www.dietdoctor.com/recipes/keto-coconut-porridge
I didn’t mention it earlier because of his problem with eggs. But as you’ve now said eggs within a recipe are ok, then maybe this would be suitable too?
Looks interesting, can you see the egg or does it disappear?
Yes the microwave is the warmest place I too do most of the cooking in the microwave including porridge. The rest of our house is freezing, I’ve been very worried because his hands have been so cold which is not like him at allThat's the often the trouble with avocados. I buy them hard and put them in a bowl on top of the microwave (the warmest place in my kitchen, as that's how I do almost all my cooking). I try to have some ripe and some coming along all the time. If I cut into a hard avocado by mistake, I have found that all is not lost. I put the halves into a closed dish and microwave very briefly. Be careful though as the part of the avocado just under the skin gets very hot when microwaved. In a way, that's typical of diabetic-friendly cookery. That is, preparation and fore-sight is key. I find this the hardest aspect. I would like to be able sometimes to eat quickly and spontaneously, but making a whole meal out of cheese and nuts (yes, I have been known to do this!) is not ideal.
Given that you still think he needs to GAIN weight, why not nuts first? I do think though that it would be a good idea to get back to after-meal testing, to evaluate how various foods and quantities are affecting him. I and many / most Forumites find that eating more fat does satisfy. Perhaps if he could bring himself to eat a breakfast high in protein and fat instead of carbs, he might feel less desperate for sandwiches at lunch-time. Also, nuts and bits of cheese need no preparation and can easily be carried for emergency snacking.
If he can control his bg, I know of no reason why he should get ill while travelling. However, I did know a very nice man who was diagnosed diabetic but paid it absolutely no attention. One day he went to Ireland on a fishing trip and fell in to a diabetic coma. Luckily for him the Irish emergency services did him proud and saved his life: he couldn't speak highly enough of them. He then began to take diabetes seriously, but sadly it was a bit late and the last time I saw him he had almost no feeling in his hands. If you think shock tactics might help, you could show your husband the Panorama "the Hidden Killer" documentary on diabetes. But be warned, it really is shocking.
Hi Alexandra, he’s just said he was told he doesn’t go low ever only high so no comas? I don’t know what’s right and what’s wrong! TiaGiven that you still think he needs to GAIN weight, why not nuts first? I do think though that it would be a good idea to get back to after-meal testing, to evaluate how various foods and quantities are affecting him. I and many / most Forumites find that eating more fat does satisfy. Perhaps if he could bring himself to eat a breakfast high in protein and fat instead of carbs, he might feel less desperate for sandwiches at lunch-time. Also, nuts and bits of cheese need no preparation and can easily be carried for emergency snacking.
If he can control his bg, I know of no reason why he should get ill while travelling. However, I did know a very nice man who was diagnosed diabetic but paid it absolutely no attention. One day he went to Ireland on a fishing trip and fell in to a diabetic coma. Luckily for him the Irish emergency services did him proud and saved his life: he couldn't speak highly enough of them. He then began to take diabetes seriously, but sadly it was a bit late and the last time I saw him he had almost no feeling in his hands. If you think shock tactics might help, you could show your husband the Panorama "the Hidden Killer" documentary on diabetes. But be warned, it really is shocking.
I will get the ingredients and try it on him. Is it very coconutty? He likes Malibu !
I used to love cooking porridge in the microwave, completely avoiding the punishing task of washing up the porridge pan. If the cold hands problem is recent, maybe it is a diabetic complication that can be reversed by ongoing low bg. Might that help motivation? Meanwhile, I too have terribly cold hands and have greatly benefitted from these battery operated handwarmers.Yes the microwave is the warmest place I too do most of the cooking in the microwave including porridge. The rest of our house is freezing, I’ve been very worried because his hands have been so cold which is not like him at all
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