Hi betic,
There isn't a set figure for reducing carbs as such, you will find many members on the forum consume anything from 30g a day to 200-250g, sometimes more. Its all about what works for you, I reduced my carb intake cause I was often in double figures, and my control was erratic. Therefore, I started by trying to get away with the least amount possible, which for me was 50g of carbs, but even though I bulked my meals up with extra veg etc, I felt ill and lethargic. Some on very low-carb diets substitute carbs with extra fat, but as I didn't want to do this for health reasons, I slowly increased my carbs and I am eating between 90g-130g daily.
At this level I feel perfectly fine, maintain good blood levels, and my hba1c has come down by 1.4%.
The key to restricting carbs is testing, as much as possible at first so that you can see which foods cause spikes, and to write down this information and record all bg's. You say that on your present diet you have good bg control in single figures, this is good and must mean that you are slowly getting there. I too would ignore your dietician's advice, 12 rounds of bread a day could equate to 250-300g of carbs alone! :shock:
Try eating your fruit (apples) after your main meals, this way it shouldn't spike you the same. Just remember, keep an eye on your bg's, especially before and after you exercise. There is some good advice on another website for people like yourself who are sporty, its called 'runsweet' . I will have a quick look and post link for you.
http://www.runsweet.com/
Regards
Nigel