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vintagelass

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Hi everyone, im new here! I have a problem.. a family of very picky eaters. Im a type 2, my hubby is too! We have a 16 year old at home. Now hubby hates veggies, he literally picks veggies out of everything, very much a meat eater. Ill eat anything! And son is picky. I struggle with meal times! Never know what to cook, and trying to keep it healthy. Recipies please!!!
Its getting rediculous and im trying ti improve all of our health!
 

KennyA

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Hello and welcome - what sort of diet are you aiming for? Low carb? reduced carb? Something else?

Personally almost all of my food is fresh and prepared and cooked at home. Mainly meat, fish, eggs, cheese, cream, with some veg, usually green leafy above ground stuff. I can manage beans/legumes without it affecting my BG, so they go in some stews curries and chillis.

There is also a recipe book section on this forum, free to download - here: https://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/download-18-free-meal-plans-and-cookbooks.190766/

best of luck!
 

JoKalsbeek

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Hi everyone, im new here! I have a problem.. a family of very picky eaters. Im a type 2, my hubby is too! We have a 16 year old at home. Now hubby hates veggies, he literally picks veggies out of everything, very much a meat eater. Ill eat anything! And son is picky. I struggle with meal times! Never know what to cook, and trying to keep it healthy. Recipies please!!!
Its getting rediculous and im trying ti improve all of our health!
So, you have two diabetics in the house and picky eaters... Yeah, that can get a bit stressful at mealtimes! Good news though: Meat, provided it isn't over-processed and stuffed full of carby fillers, can help his blood sugars. It's just protein and fats, and those don't spike a diabetic. There's actually a carnivore diet that consists solely of animal protein (meat, fish, eggs, dairy) that just about works miracles on blood sugar control. It's an extreme example though, but I'm mentioning it purely so you know just eating animal protein/fats isn't going to harm his diabetes. If eating right, without overprocessed stuff filled with starches and the like, it could well improve it. So maybe that's a worry less.

In this household, there's the diabetic (moi), and the non-diabetic (my husband). We practically eat the same meal, except that he gets spuds and I get (for instance) salmon, besides the sausages and broccoli with cheese this evening. I don't have to cook entirely different meals for us, I just shift the proportions some. So you get more above ground veg (under ground is usually more carby) and so does your kid, your husband joins in with a double helping of meat which you and your son might have a little less of... Just try to make things that fit you all and don't give everyone the same amount of everything. Veg that goes cold having been placed on the edge of the plate, could've been enjoyed on yours. I don't know how picky your child is, and whether it's simply "being picky" or ARFID, but there must be work-arounds there somehow, too.

Anyway, try checking out dietdoctor.com, lots of info on there is free and they do have loads and loads of healthy recipies there, suitable for diabetics. Maybe something'll help. And if you're worried about your husband's vitamin intake, maybe have a blood test done to check for deficiencies, maybe start supplementing accordingly, if there's a need for that. You sound very, very worried and there are solutions to this... Though it might take a little effort on the side of your family, but if you let them know how at your wit's end you are... Maybe they'll be willing to pitch in. (Or go on strike and don't cook for anyone but yourself, haha! See how long that lasts... ;) )

Good luck, eh.
Jo
 

Antje77

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Hi everyone, im new here! I have a problem.. a family of very picky eaters. Im a type 2, my hubby is too! We have a 16 year old at home. Now hubby hates veggies, he literally picks veggies out of everything, very much a meat eater. Ill eat anything! And son is picky. I struggle with meal times! Never know what to cook, and trying to keep it healthy. Recipies please!!!
Its getting rediculous and im trying ti improve all of our health!
Hi @vintagelass , I agree with the above replies, and for inspiration you might like this thread where we share what we have eaten in the low carb section of the forum. I know I got a lot of meal ideas from there. :) https://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/what-have-you-eaten-today-low-carb-forum.75781/page-3163
 

Chris24Main

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Totally relate - I do most (all) of the cooking - wife doesn't like much meat or salt, teenage daughter would have nothing but Korean dumplings, so I end up having to make three different meals every night.

I typically do something carby, split between daughter and wife, something veggy, split between me and wife, and something meaty that I get.
Still a work in progress, but at least I'm pulling the strings, so to speak.

It's not easy though..
 

Angela64

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Totally relate - I do most (all) of the cooking - wife doesn't like much meat or salt, teenage daughter would have nothing but Korean dumplings, so I end up having to make three different meals every night.

I typically do something carby, split between daughter and wife, something veggy, split between me and wife, and something meaty that I get.
Still a work in progress, but at least I'm pulling the strings, so to speak.

It's not easy though..
Hi everyone, im new here! I have a problem.. a family of very picky eaters. Im a type 2, my hubby is too! We have a 16 year old at home. Now hubby hates veggies, he literally picks veggies out of everything, very much a meat eater. Ill eat anything! And son is picky. I struggle with meal times! Never know what to cook, and trying to keep it healthy. Recipies please!!!
Its getting rediculous and im trying ti improve all of our health!
Hi everyone, im new here! I have a problem.. a family of very picky eaters. Im a type 2, my hubby is too! We have a 16 year old at home. Now hubby hates veggies, he literally picks veggies out of everything, very much a meat eater. Ill eat anything! And son is picky. I struggle with meal times! Never know what to cook, and trying to keep it healthy. Recipies please!!!
Its getting rediculous and im trying ti improve all of our health!
The 16 yr old is old enough to pitch in, I learnt to cook from 11yr old at school and I’d watch mum. At 15/16 mum had to go to her mum as she was ill, so it was me doing our family’s meals, dad and 3 siblings. It is hard going, my adult daughter who eats with us twice a week, refuses to acknowledge I cannot eat various foods Wether its because she does not want to accept I have a serious problem I don’t know. So, by the 16 yr old helping they’ll be learning how to cook and help them self. Most likely there’ll be resistance, so I would say, you either help and learn or a)eat what’s given b) go without - tough love