So we fixed the cat problem by feeding him at 10.30 then chucking him out for the night..
Then the dog decided to be sick and woke me up.. the next night hubs got thirsty and woke me up.. and last night the cat was having a fight outside and woke me up.. so one undisturbed night in the past week! Animals.. who'd have em...! Hubs is of course completely forgiven!